08 August 2011

Convincing Your Husband To Decorate Your Way

 

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I recently wrote an article for the current issue of Antique Shops and Designers – a décor magazine which is produced here in Houston.   This was the fourth issue I had contributed to, and this time I chose to tackle a subject I am asked about a lot:   How do I get my husband to let me decorate the way I want to?   Now, understand that I used the word “husband” because this is the most typical scenario, but this situation can apply to any couple.  It may be the wife who doesn’t care to decorate, or it could be a same-sex couple, or even roommates with differing decorating opinions.   The age of the `couple can widely vary.  When my daughter went to college last year, she was interested in decorating her dorm room, while her roommate wasn’t at all, and I suspect that young sisters sharing a room can also experience this.    

Parts of this article are tongue in cheek and parts are more serious.    When you live with someone who lets you decorate the way you want, it’s hard to imagine how much anguish can occur when your partner is opposed to your ideas and talent.    I can’t tell you how many emails I get from people who talk about this problem.    This article details ways one might try to get a spouse to understand just what they are going through, when they aren’t allowed to decorate. 

To read the article, go HERE.   To read all the past issues of the magazine, go HERE.

 

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For the article, I used these two pictures of my family room to illustrate the difference between having a ceiling fan – which my husband insisted we have for years and years AND…

 

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How the same room looks now with a lantern instead of the dreaded ceiling fan.  To keep Ben cool, I have a small standing fan in the corner just for him, which he uses about 25 percent of the time.  He used to run the ceiling fan 24/7.

 

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This reader sent in a picture of her orange brick fireplace that her husband refused for years and years to let her repaint.

 

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And after, under pressure from their daughter, her husband relented and she painted her fireplace white – to go with her all white décor.

To read this story of this fireplace  – All In the White Family -  go HERE.

 

 

Convincing Your Husband To Decorate Your Way

One question I get asked over and over again, as both an interior designer and as a blogger, is what to do about husbands (or partners) who refuse to let you decorate your house the way you want to? What happens if one partner has exquisite taste, while the other has, well, less than wonderful taste? How does a wife tell her husband to leave the decorating to her? Men and women have such different ideas about decorating and let’s just admit that most husbands’ design preferences are clichéd. For instance, what is it about wood paneling that men love so much? I can’t count the number of times I’ve gotten an email from a distraught wife telling me her husband refuses to let her paint over their 60s style faux wood “paneling.” For some unknown reason, men think it is sacrilege to paint over anything made out of brown wood, despite how many veneers of plywood make up this purported “wood.” Why?

And don’t even think about asking for hubby’s permission to repaint Grandma’s tacky dining room suite that she probably bought for $100 at Sears, 90 years ago. It wasn’t worth much then and it still isn’t. And why do husbands go crazy for leather furniture? Does anyone truly understand why they are so attracted to poufy leather sofas, the pouffier the better? While big leather sectionals are nirvana to the male species, nothing is more heavenly than a leather recliner or one upholstered in some heavy nondescript fabric that’s impervious to nuclear blasts.

When furnishing their home offices, remember that husbands prefer Oriental rugs that are predominantly red and blue. A soft muted Oushak just isn’t their cup of tea. They also prefer brass and lots of it. Most husbands have never heard of polished nickel, except for the change in their pockets. They have a certain weakness for framed prints of birds or dogs, preferably prints of dogs with dead birds hanging out of their mouths. They certainly don’t care for modern art. Men like to display any award or diploma they ever received and the walls of the offices are filled with them. Books, with their dusty jackets intact, must be books that have been read. No fancy, French language antique books are allowed.

And to be sure, most husbands have quite definite preferences in paint colors: the jewel tones popular in the 80s are still their favorites: hunter green, navy blue, and burgundy are all acceptable. Ivory, never white, is the only exception. Good luck to the wife who wants to paint her bedroom a soft, coral pink. Divorces have been started over pastel boudoirs. The fabulous designer Charlotte Moss says master bedrooms should be the woman’s refuge. After all, it’s the woman’s domain and she invites the man into her bedroom. Sure, Charlotte. Maybe that’s how it is in your house, but most husbands think of the master bedroom as their personal playroom.

So, what do you do if you want a pink bedroom and a living room filled with white slipcovered furniture and scratchy seagrass rugs, but your husband refuses to budge from his man cave mentality? What do you do if you don’t want ceiling fans in every room, but he insists they keep the electrical bills lower? What if you want the brown paneling painted a soft, muted gray, but he stands firm against it? While all this may sound silly and trivial, when you are the suffering wife, it is really serious business. How can you convince your husband to let you decorate your house the way you want to?

When my husband and I were going through infertility treatments, we were required to go to counseling before we were eligible for the In vitro Program. So there we sat, two scared newlyweds, just wanting a baby more than anything. Well, I should clarify; there we sat, where I wanted a baby more than anything. My husband was just going through this process to shut me up. Of course he wanted a baby, but it wasn’t life or death to him. It was to me. Our one session with this unknown therapist has stuck with me all these years later – 21 to be exact. The therapist asked Ben a simple question: what did you play with when you were a child? Quickly and without thinking, he answered “cops and robbers, football, and soldiers.” And you, Joni, what did you play? My answer came just as easily “Mommy and house.” The therapist smugly nodded. You see, Ben, she said, Joni has spent her entire life playing at being a mommy, waiting to have her own house and her own baby, while you played soldiers. I was stunned at how succinctly she summed up the difference between men and women and how quickly Ben grasped that this bout with infertility was not just some little “problem” to me. It was devastating and hurtful and went against all my natural instincts as a woman.

Twenty years later, with a beautiful daughter now at college, I think of that therapist’s words and realize that what she said also applies to decorating. To a husband, his home is somewhere he is comfortable, somewhere to relax after a hard day at work. It certainly isn’t something he has planned for after studying countless décor magazines or watching endless programs on HGTV. To the wife, though, she has been waiting since childhood to have her own house, decorated in her vision, a place to entertain and a cozy nest to keep her family close. It is everything to her. It is the center of her existence.

When I get emails from blog readers asking me how can they get their husband to “let” them paint their brown paneling or the dining room table, I always repeat what that therapist told me all those years ago. My advice is simple. Ask your husband out to dinner. Tell him you want to discuss something important with him. Make sure he has a nice sized drink at dinner. Start out with a question. Ask him what our therapist asked: “what games did you play when you were little?” Tell him what you played. Make sure you tell him how much you respect him and what he does for the family. Explain that you want the same respect. Tell him that you have studied magazines and décor for years and know exactly how you want your house to look like. Ask him to understand that it is your lifelong dream to have that beautiful house. Ask him if he can say the same? Ask him to trust your taste. Above all, don’t raise your voice and don’t argue. State your cause in a mature, reasonable tone. This isn’t a fight, you are merely opening up his eyes to who you really are and what you really want.   

Most likely your husband will see how serious you are and will be willing to give up his jewel toned walls, ceiling fans, and leather sectional. If not, compromise and offer to create a room especially for him, but on the condition that you get to design the rest of the house. Follow Charlotte Moss’ advice and tell him you are inviting him into your bedroom. Who knows? It might spice things up a little. In truth, your husband has probably never even realized how important the way your house looks is to you. He most likely has never given it a thought. Now that you have opened up and been truthful, hopefully he will step aside and let you paint those paneled walls a beautiful soft gray. Remember, you’ve been playing mommy and house since you were toddling. He was playing cops and robbers. Surely, you deserve a room full of white slipcovers and scratchy seagrass. Good luck!

                                                                                                                                        

Well, that is my idea!  Do you have a better one?  I would love to hear your tactics on how you handle your husband when he pokes his nose in the decorating !!!   Leave a comment so others can get some ideas!   As always, thanks a million for all your comments.

                                          

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To read the article in the current Antique Shops and Designers, go HERE.   To read all the past issues of the magazine, go HERE.

 

268 comments:

  1. Your way would have been a more successful, kinder way... The first room I decorated was filled with disagreement. My husband thought I was nuts. Then I finished and he admitted it looked wonderful!

    Another great thoughtful article! How exciting to be published, I'm waiting for your book!!!

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  2. My husband (of six years) and I just made our first large furniture purchase last weekend. We saved for three years and paid cash for it. In that three years I studied, dreamed, clipped photos etc. I wanted camelback swivel/glider Lee Industries chairs with English arms, down filling, and a luxurious fabric. He wanted a standard cushion, straight back, normal round arm, and a fabric with some texture. We ended up with his purchase and I cried privately for about 6 hours off and on after the purchase. I'm sure I'll love the chairs when they arrive. Right???

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  3. My sweet husband of 10 years now tells me he loves my "touch" on the house. That was after a tiny disagreement years ago when I finally told him he needs my help to match his clothes, how does he have such a strong opinion when it comes to decor? Love your blog! It's my favorite!!

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  4. You’ll hate me but I decorate gender neutral and my husband loves it, moves right in and makes himself comfortable without a word. There are feminine touches throughout our home but I’ve made sure to include him, his things and likes, in the decorating after all he lives here too. Now my studio is all about me and I know not my husbands taste but it doesn’t have to be because it’s mine. About the only thing my husband has a problem with is my budget it’s always WAY higher then what he wants to pay. Wonderful article once again.

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  5. I always used to get so frustrated with that HGTV show "Decorating for the Sexes"....seriously, the guy always wanted crap and my opinion was always "who the heck cares what you want, what do you know about decorating anyway?" Luckily, my husband is really unobservant and doesn't care too much what I do and probably wouldn't notice at all if he wasn't paying the bills. A lot of times I am just thinking out loud and if he responds I remind him that Dr. Phil gave the best advice on home decorating that I've ever heard. He had a couple on his show and the husband asked how he could share his opinion about the decor, and Dr. Phil told him that his only opinion should be "LOVE IT!" and then shut up. So basically that's what he says..... "Love it!"

    As for painting paneling and brick...no clue what that's all about, but my theory on it is that they are either afraid you're going to make them do it, or you're not going to like it and they're going to have to figure out how to fix it.

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  6. Wow! This is a fun subject! My husband and I have very different taste when it comes to decor. He likes modern, I like more traditional. It's not easy to decorate our home. I try to mix a bit and I don't say a word about his office. That's why it's my least place in the house. :-)


    Great post, Joni!

    Have a blessed week!

    xo

    Luciane at HomeBunch.com

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  7. I am lucky that I get to have my way in decorating~my hubs grew up with a mother who hated chandeliers cuz you would just bump your head on them. She has none to this day, and I am a chandelier freak! It was a little hard getting him to agree on the first chandy, but now there are 5 in our house ( I had him hanging one yesterday and he actually said he liked it!). I also think as long as you tend to the softer side of your relationship you can usually get what you want! I will admit that yesterday the chandy was hung after "favors"!
    Great post!

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  8. I am going through this right now. After 32 years of marriage my husband has an opinion on how our home is decorated. He has always let me do what ever I want and has liked it. I decorated his studio and he has always followed my advise on sets for his photos. I am re doing my living room. I recovered the sofa, new curtains, and a new look. I want to paint all my walls white in my living room and he wants to keep the color the same. - well, I am not sure what color it will end up, but the marriage is more important than the walls. I will send you pictures when I am done to see who will win this. thanks for the great advise.

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  9. My motto....it is better to beg forgiveness than ask for permission!

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  10. With the risk of sounding smug, I think I married the best man on the planet for a variety of reasons, but one in particular is that he has always, without fail, allowed the decorating to me. He hasn't always loved it, (and for that matter, neither have I) and will say so when he doesn't. He would prefer a more modern look, as opposed to all the antiques and traditional, but I try to make it as gender balanced as possible with very little frills. In the end, he still leaves 99% of the choices up to me...his only vice with the decor is the TV issues....there is one in every room, but I get to decide how it is disguised or housed. So, to the women who don't get to make many decisions with decorating, my heart truly goes out to them...Joni, hopefully your suggestions will help them out...the only thing I can add to yours is trying a few "wifely" favors in exchange :)

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  11. Dear Dr. Joni!
    Drifting over into Marriage Counselling now, eh? Smart
    move in this economy, you may make more money!
    Seriously, these are very good and sound thoughts. Designers have been saying for years that they are part marriage counsellors, so, the same principles apply at home. Great, insightful post!

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  12. The comment about the fake wood paneling made me laugh. My husband and I had the same argument when we first got married over 20 years ago. I absolutely hated the dark paneling covering the family room walls and he loved it. Finally, I had enough and painted it while he was out of town. He wasn't too happy about it at first but later admitted that it changed the room for the better. After that he left the decorating decisions to me. Actually, one house which we had custom built he never saw until the day we moved in....

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  13. Husbands should keep mum about decorating decisions. The large majority have no taste except bad and/or way outdated. Most of time it's opions they have expressed before the work is done and once you actually do it, they could care less or barely notice. Give them a hot meal, a big screen, and sex; that's all they really care about. No, really.

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  14. interesting topic. i like your suggestions. sometimes i forget that so many women go through this with their spouses. for the most part, my husband wants to see me happy and trusts my decisions. but at the same time, i ask for advice, as to show him that his opinion matters in the end. i think the only thing he's ever said NO is to birds nests with eggs covered by glass. haha! it's funny. and i think he may accept me doing it at some point ;) talk to your husbands ladies, they love you...that's why you married them.

    ashley

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  15. Tomorrow is our 36th anniversary and my husband is glad I have ideas about our home. I give in to ceiling fans in rooms he likes because I know how much he hates hot weather and I pretty much do whatever I please. It helps that he is a son and grandson of women who loved their homes. I say he came to me "house trained."

    I disagree with Charlotte Moss about "inviting" your husband to YOUR bedroom. Unless you have separate bedrooms, it is a room for the two of you. I always prefer honesty to coy charades.

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  16. My husband has strong opinions that are often very different from mine. In fact , we often HATE what the other person LOVES. My position is that neither of us should have to live with things we hate. This of course means that the other person has to give up something they love. Very hard. But it turns out that we do have an area of overlapping taste, so we usually just keep looking until we find it. (Plus we hired a decorator to help us, which was our wisest strategy.) The process is hard, but I think our home is much more interesting and (oddly) more personal than if I had just done it my way.

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  17. I think this plan would work if you have a sensitive husband which most women do not. As I read this I imagined having this conversation with the men that I have been in relationships with and I couldn't visualize it working. They would have just told me to shut up. Which is why I am not married to this day but can decorate however I like.

    I can envision a scenario that goes much like this...

    Me: "Honey, think about what games you played as a child."

    He: "I played video games, war and football."

    Me: "All my life I played house...decorated in my mind my future home and imagined having a beautiful life."

    He: "You are right. We need a bigger tv for my video games. more open space and let's frame that autographed jersey."

    Me: "That wasn't what I meant. I'd like to make our home a sanctuary that I invite you into."

    He: "Shut up."

    Me: "Get out"

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  19. I adore your little “good luck” at the end!! This is a wonderful post. I am very lucky that my husband allows me to decorate how I wish, and I feel even more lucky that he respects my taste and thinks we have a beautiful home. This is actually something I thank him for often, letting him know how much it means to me. I wanted to add that if the husband/partner gives in on something make it a point to tell them how much it means to you - this may help to soften them on other issues!!

    Also my husband has a “manroom” that he is free to decorate/organize/and clean as little as he chooses. Well I may have suggested the nautical theme, but that was it I swear! Everything of his goes in there, even his muddy shoes, thereby preventing clutter in the rest of the house. Works well for us!!

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  20. Loved this article. I think all husbands are alike in some ways and idfferent in others. I am pretty luck that My hubby trust me but and a big BUT it seems to always involve the budget. If I am honest to myself he is quite reasonable, I usually need to re-evaluate my needs vs wants. The one and only thing he has put his foot down on, is the painted brick, but I made a compromise and asked if we could cover it with a wainscoting and he said he would do that. Not sure why it is okay to cover with wood(more money,more work) vs paint(less money less work) For some reason he thinks we will change our mind and want the brick back and once it is painted it is a done deal. I agree with a neutral spot to discuss spending money on any house improvements and choose our words carefully and gently, Great post Joni,Kathysue

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  21. Love it...and so true. I really think that a woman is the heart of the home, and as such, she is its only mistress. Couldn't agree with Ms. Moss more - the man is certainly 'invited' to a ladies domain and world, it is his privilege to be with her, just as it is hers to respect and honor him. My husband and I battled it out for two years until he realized the importance of making our house a 'home' as opposed to just a place to chill. Now, when we entertain, he shines with pride when people comment on how warm and inviting our home is! And I could not be more pleased. And thankful for a man who saw the light.

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  22. Great Post. Now - I am on the other end of this situation.. my wonderful sweet husband could care less how I decorate.. but you see - that is how we ended living above our barn!

    Ahh - but thankfully I believe with in a year we will start a 'real' house further back on the farm! French Country all the way!

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  23. Love this post! It's always the same story around here, I mention the change, he resists, I mention it again, he ums... I mention it again, and he finally actually considers it... then I just make the change, and he almost always loves it!
    It took many years for him to understand that such "trivial" things could mean so much to me...

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  24. Joni I just love the way you handled interior decor with Ben!! I loved your article, very fun, and yes serious as well. Nita's conversation is hilarious!

    Women are still from Venus and Men from Mars!!

    xoxo
    Karena

    Art by Karena

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  25. I guess I'm very lucky. My husband has always left the decorating to me. He'll let me know if he absolutely doesn't want me to do something or doesn't like something I've done but usually he likes it and stays out of the way. He's more concerned with the cost than he is how it will look. His mom always did the decorating in his house growing up, so I think he thinks it's "the woman's job". Ha!

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  26. Great topic, one it seems many of us can or have related to. My tactic is a little more along the lines of "kind and innocent manipulation".....lets say I want a new dining table, instead of asking for a dining table, I tell him I want to do the living room over AND get a new dining table, if he hems and haws enough, I then "break down" and make a noble compromise of telling him (insert slightly annoyed assertive tone here) "fine I will just get the dining table for now BUT I do expect in a few months to start on the living room. WIN WIN both ways! I get my table, he gets the satisfaction of THINKING he had the last word....shhhh!

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  27. Room Service ~ Decorating 101August 8, 2011 at 7:22 PM

    I don't ask for permission or money and things go pretty well. When I do have to ask for labor is where I run into problems...my husband is not a bit interested in the decor of our house and I like that way! Once I asked him how he liked the new chair( it was in the living room, we were standing in the bedroom) he looked at a chair that had been there 15 years and said, " looks great" ! LOL

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  28. I feel very lucky indeed, my husband and I decorate together and it makes the place definitively ours rather than more one person or the others. We've just bought a house and have sold our unit and so are now about to embark on decorating a much larger space. Hopefully the status quo will remain!

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  29. I like your idea. And fortunately, I have always had free reign when it comes to decorating our house. He knows if I'm happy, there is more of a likelihood that he will get lucky later on. And yes, I have always ascribed to Charlotte Moss's philosophy that we invite men into our boudoirs. My husband sleeps in an iron canopy bed with white cotton panels. As long as he--well, you get the picture!
    He can decorate his office at work anyway he wants. Our home is where I work. Still, I have had clients who made me want to pull my hair out. Every suggestion is met with, "my husband doesn't like that color, floral fabric, scratchy rug, painted cabinet, etc." Then why did you call me? haha.
    Great post Joni. ~Delores

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  30. PS had to add that I am lucky because my husband has great taste and we normally agree but for the most part he leaves the decorating up to me, so I feel pretty lucky!

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  31. Fabulous post! I'd like to meet that therapist too!

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  32. Such great advice, Joni. I am headed to look at the back issues.
    Have a great day!
    Teresa
    xoxo

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  33. Loved this post Joni! Hope you are well. Miss you!

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  34. A lot of times the Husband does the decorating and the wife watches. I say those women who want to do things should just do it and when the husband get's home. opps- already done. Please drop by my blog this week for a free give away. Thanks, Richard at My Old Historic House.

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  35. I hope this doesn't sound too awful but I have decorating control because I am the one paying for it. My husband has opinions that are often a great resource, like seeing through another's eyes but I still get the final word as long as he doesn't have to pay for it.

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  36. We have to have a fan in our south facing room. Even after adding insulation and getting honeycomb shades it's still a tad bit warm. Our ceiling fan cools the room.

    I didn't choose a white fan tho', I like them when they look a little Ernest Hemmingwayish. Fans arn't that horrible. I think the right ones are kinda neat.

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  37. I'm with Tina/enchanted home... work it! My husband loves a deal so I always say what I want is on sale or it's such a "find"... At this point, after 23 years, I say, "Babe, I've figured everything in this house out to this point, and you love it, so just let me do what I want from now on...." He doesn't really go for this. I basically ask for the big things and try to sneak the smaller things. When he notices the smaller things, I pretend we've had them for years!

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  38. What a difference the lantern makes in your family room. We have a beautiful walnut paneled study that my husband insisted on adding a "walnut" fan instead of the wonderful fixture I had chosen. That was 16 years ago, and I'd almost forgotten about it...must get a beautiful fixture ASAP!!

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  39. I described my husband as "self-guilting". He plays too much golf and feels guilty about it without my saying a word of complaint. I encourage him to play golf because it makes him happy. He encourages my decorating because it makes me happy.

    Took some tough early years of battling over it to come to this place. On our way to our current understanding, we've experienced many of the same situations described in the comments. Sheila's comment made me laugh out loud. So true in many ways. Fun reading!

    Great article with great advice. Thank you.

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  40. Here is my thoughts, Women ask to much. Really there husbands don't care but given the question and the wife really wanting to hear an answer he says what he thinks. BUT and there is a but. Do u really think they are going to do something about it. Like if he says i want the wall green. Most men will not take the time to paint it . Cause alot of them really dont want to be bothered with it. And if u paint the room pink cause that is what u wanted, do u really think he will take the time to paint over it. Not really. Most men really don't like floral. So compromise and not do it all floral. And lot of men( not all, we are talking husbands)cannott visualize something until it is done. I am lucky my husband knows i love to decorate that is my creative outlet. Sure i will make sure he has his own cabinet for his watch collection . As long as he can see his collection that is about all he is looking at. Not the details on the cabinet. Once my husband told me not to paint the wood cabinets cause they were wood. Well i did it, and he liked it. Just make sure they have a comfy chair, tv and an easy route to the toilet they r fine.lol

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  41. hi, joni! wonderful post. i laughed about the wood, leather, bird dogs, and hunter green because it hit veeeery close to home :) i have been married 6 years and at first it was a bit of a struggle but i actually said something similar to what you said about this being my lifelong dream..i'm still going to make him read this because you said it so much better! we're ok now, and the decor is left to me, but if i'd let him, we'd have a dead animal in every room, NOT just his office. OH! the best thing that ever happened for my antique obsession is that someone at a nice antique store told my husband that antiques were an investment. he bought me the chairs on the spot.

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  42. what a tough question to tackle, Joni, but I think you have done it well and with style and flare..per your usual..I was lucky to be married to someone who was open to letting me decorating as I wanted so I can't imagine how frustrating it must be for some people to deal with a spouse who doesn't share their vision for their home..hopefully, your article will help some couples come to terms with the decorating issue..
    best,
    maureen

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  43. This is great. Not only can we learn about decorating, but we can also get relationship tips!! I work from home, so I'm constantly looking around at the state of affairs. I love to "transform" certain pieces of furniture or accessories. My husband always has an opinion and truly isn't the least bit visionary. In order to quiet him down, I decided that he could choose the paint color in our bedroom. He chose the most hideous tennis ball green you've ever seen. I cringe every time someone sees it. I'm quick to point out that was his choice. It's only a matter of time before that wall color has to go. When I think back to his bachelor pad days and his "Goodwill" furniture, there is no way he is choosing the decor around here!! He needs to get his own hobby.

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  44. This is fabulous, Joni. I have been fortunate in that most of my husband-wife clients have both been on board and pretty much on the same page -- probably the ones whose husbands are anti-decorating don't get to hire decorators at all. BUT... Very early in my career I had a client who was moving into a new home and wanted custom window treatments for every window. She insisted there was "no budget" for the project, and asked me to fax my proposal with the final numbers to her husband's office so she could get started right away... Of course he freaked out at the bottom line, and we went from no budget to tight budget in a heartbeat. Live and learn.

    Another time, I had been working with a young woman and the first time I met with both husband and wife was when I was preseting the design proposal. The husband, young guy who must have been in his mid to late twenties, was so not into the decorating thing that he actually laid down on the FLOOR and SHUT HIS EYES during my presentation. Then he told his wife no to everything -- but she called me a week later and said to go ahead anyway; it's easier to get forgiveness than permission. Talk about uncomfortable!!

    My favorite role model for these delicate husband-wife conflicts as a designer is Michael Payne, remember his Designing for the Sexes show that used to be on HGTV? Everyone needs to feel like they are getting a "win." So, husbands often end up giving in about things like color on ceilings or more pillows than they think are necessary, and we incorporate motorized window treatments or a new flat screen TV or something for the husbands.

    Yes, decorating is usually more important to one spouse than the other (and it's not always the wife who cares most), but although I love Charlotte Moss and adore her work, I think she's going to far with the idea that it's the woman's home and the husband is "invited in." Over time, a lot of resentment can build up when one partner feels like they are working their butt off to pay the bills, but they are a guest in their own home.

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  45. As a designer I find men really do care about the design of their home.
    I have also found that men are willing to spend on quality furniture and art work where as the wife wants to take a quick run to home goods.
    I have had men tell me out of ear shot of their wives that they do not feel comfortable in their homes which is why so many want this "man cave".
    I would have loved to design our home "my way", but in the end it is a space that we both enjoy being in at the end of the day.

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  46. I had a similar conversation with my husband last week. I asked him why he doesn't walk with me or stay with me when we are in the home depot/department/furniture store (He typically runs up and down the aisles or pushes the kids around in the cart like a lunatic.). He just leaves me standing there trying to make choices without him. When he finally shows up for two seconds, he doesn't make a decision and then says he needs to think about it. His response to my question was "I didn't realize going to the home depot was a date".

    It is a date to me because this is what I love doing. I would like him to be a part of it, but I can't stand the waiting. I don't think it is right for me to make large purchases without his input. The truth is, he never thinks about it and will avoid thinking about it because it might cost money. When I met him he had one sauce pan and a microfiber couch that pulled out into a bed! I'm not kidding. He was always eating some type of boiled dinner. He'd be perfectly happy to let me pay for everything, but I don't think that is fair either. We are in this together. We are currently re-doing our kitchen. This is stressful for me because he doesn't realize how much anything costs. I spend time finding things at a discount and he keeps complaining about every dime we spend. I have to keep reminding him that we have to finish what we started, so there is no use whining about it. It's just a fact. The kitchen needs a light. The doors need knobs. The floor needs tile. When we bought our first couch after we were married, he left the store and went out to the curb and pouted. How on earth do you deal with someone like this?

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  47. My sons want the oversized leather sectional with the built in recliners and the section in between with the built in cooler and area to store the remote controls....aaaaggghh!! parenting is never finished is it?
    great piece,
    Bonny

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  48. Joni, great article and we feel for those who have to deal with this issue. A bit of advice that someone once told me. "It's much easier to ask for forgiveness than ask for permission". We think this would fit a situation such as changing out the ceiling fan or painting the brick fire place perfectly. Not saying one should follow this advice in other areas of life but in decorating...oh yeah! We just posted on a similar topic we titled Battle of the Sexes. Hope your week is off to a great start!
    Angela and Renee

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  49. Such a timely post. We recently lost our house to a fire and I'm in the process of trying to replace all of the family heirlooms that were lost. When I told my husband how much it is going to cost he about died and it isn't even our money we are spending, it is the insurance proceeds! I will for sure use this approach the next time he doesn't agree with the direction we are taking.

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  50. Fabulous post. Such a funny article. The best thing to do when you can't get your husband to agree with you, is to make them think it is their idea. When people come over and compliment something your husband has done, such as choose a lovely rug, just say, "It was Don's idea." Your husband will puff up like a peacock with pride. Deep down, he'll know it was your idea, but after a while, he will come to learn that taking your advice, will come back as praise to him from others. Since men can't get enough praise, they will do pretty much anything to get it.

    When the beautiful Aubusson rug you chose over his grandmother's worn out oriental comes, you might even say to him yourself, "Oh [insert your husband's name here], you made such a brilliant decision! You are so clever! I just love this rug, even more than the others we considered!" Straight men don't care what the house looks like, as long as they get the praise for it!
    That's my way and it works like a charm. The main color of my house is pink. I love it and now, my husband does too!

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  51. I meant to say, when people come over and compliment something YOU have done. Oops! Please feel free to correct on your end!
    Thanks.

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  52. Hi there,
    It took me 3 years to convince my hubs to let me have free reign of decorating. He finally relented after we addressed his fears.
    He feared change and couldn't "see" the final room. So I reassured him that if I moved furniture around and and he didn't like it after living with it for awhile, that I would find someone to help me move it back in place. The thing is, once he got used to it after living with it, the old fear of change kicked back in for the current arrangement so he didn't want me to move it. ;)
    He had a few (completely worthless) things that he did not want to let go of. I made arrangements to have them stored. After awhile, he realized that he didn't miss it at all and agreed to get rid of them.
    Finally, I redid rooms anyhow and posted pictures on facebook which everyone praised. He saw this and decided that he liked it too. I'm still working on the ceiling fan though. ;)
    http://jennhearn.wordpress.com/

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  53. The best advice for husbands ever! I loved what your therapist said, how perfect is that! And my favourite line so far was what Alexa Hampton said once at a talk for Architectural Digest. "When my husband pipes up with his opinion about my decorating I say "Honey, have I seen your work published somewhere?" Unfortunately we need a better line for those that aren't published. . . Yours is the best Joni!
    x
    Maria

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  54. Ah...this article makes me laugh because its true. This is how I solve the problem - I just change things up when he is out of the house - surprise! And he ends up liking it. I noticed that when I tell him my ideas, he is not sure about them because he cannot VISUALIZE it. Then when he sees them, he totally agrees. So now I just surprise him so there is no potential problem. :)

    Indy

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  55. Advice, please! How do I convince him that we should paint our dreadful orange exterior brick? He has worked at architecting, even if he started out playing cowboys. He's also a "fall" and loves the warm colors and I'm a spring. That brick is the visual version of fingernails on a chalkboard to me. He thinks it will require more work to maintain.

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  56. chasworthplace.comAugust 9, 2011 at 10:31 AM

    What an amazing article! and sooo true. I love the questions and it explains so many aspects of the difference between men and women. I work with a lot of widows who are redesigning their home and this is still a part of it...the couple is still an entity, Some pieces to honor the past, some pieces that were always dreamed of. I love this and I will borrow it for myself and my clients.

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  57. Amen on this one! It takes time....I am lucky, Robes, over the years, now trusts my judgement, except for his office.....Clandestinely painted it a color 4 shades darker when we moved in....But everyone likes it..... Go figure...Maryanne;)

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  58. What wonderful suggestions! I love your article. I have the opposite situation. My husband can't stand to be bothered with decorating and just wants me to do whatever I want and leave him out of it. That has it's benefits, but if (when) I make a mistake, I have to own it by myself!

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  59. Great article! It reminded me of our daughter's comment several years ago when we were moving into a new home we had just built...she was 10 and wanted to know if we could hide Daddy's ugly furniture (meaning his bachelor hold overs of a peanut butter brown sofa, a coffee table with smoked glass inserts & "pleather" straps underneath for holding his golf & fishing magazines, along with the gray velour recliner he had to buy right after we married so he would be comfortable watching his HUGE tv)!! LOL! Luckily, we had built in a man-cave room so that's where all that stuff went! I think the best thing we, as a family, did that turned him around was to visit new model homes on Sunday afternoon drives around town. He saw the up to date interiors in those model homes and fell in love with them.

    Cheers,
    Sheralyn

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  60. I think this article is a bit patronising. If the two halves of a couple have different tastes, the key is compromise - after all, if they both live there, they should both have input.

    I disagree with the suggestion that husbands have never heard of sating nickel - my husband wouldn't consider anything else in most cases. And it's me, the wife, who loves rich colours and sharp leather. We are young and European though, and love contemporary design and clean lines. Coral pink has no place in a modern master bedroom to me, and as for slipcovers - urgh! I always think they look terrible.

    I also disagree that home decor and motherhood is something a girl grows up dreaming about. I, and many oeople I know, were interested in architecture first and design second, and motherhood has no connection at all!

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  61. I'm pretty sure most guys idea of decorating is the biggest ugliest leather or microfiber recliner they can find, sitting directly in front of the biggest TV they can find. And all of it has to have levers, and gadgets and remotes. That's why God made testosterone, so men would really really like us so much that they will sit on a white fluffy slipcovered sofa with pink pillows, and bang their heads on our crystal chandeliers, just so they can "be" with us for a few minutes every once in a while,... or more....


    Cindy

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  62. Joni,
    LOL! I can remember the conversations when hubby and I were newlyweds...he wanted Danish modern I was, and always have been, a traditionalist.

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  63. Oh, this was so funny. I chuckled out loud. All the more reason to have a man cave somewhere...behind closed doors! This causes so much stress in some marriages. I think it has a lot to do with who has control and who has the purse strings maybe??? There are always some underlying issues. Your approach learned many years ago sounds like a winner.

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  64. My husband grew up poor, not enough to eat, living in filthy overcrowded conditions type of POOR. He was always very artistic, draws beautifully and now has a great eye for "home" things himself, but when we were first married he definitely wanted NEW and MATCHING SETS of furniture. He grew up thinking that if people could afford to buy a sofa, a loveseat, two end tables and coffee table then they had surely come to fruition and were living an unbelievably good and wealthy life. It did take a bit to get him to understand that I like the mish mash of unexpected things together and that nothing makes me happier than a thrift store find. I actually started showing him pictures in magazines, over and over, and he gradually realized I am not crazy (in regard to decor anyway) or AT LEAST I am not the ONLY crazy one.

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  65. My husband laughed when I told him the title of the post I was reading. He said I can tell you the answer in one quick sentence...this I had to know. He said all you have to do is fuss(not the exact word he used lol) long enough then you get what you want in the end. So that's what I did I guess. No ceiling fan in my living room any longer! He actually got one from his grandmother that she wasn't using any longer and put it up for me until I could find the one I really want. He hasn't said a word about anything I have picked out since the blue wall disaster! He wanted these dark blue walls in our sons room and everyone that came over pretty much said they didn't like the color at all. I say just let them make one choice and then you should be set after that!

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  66. Ladies,
    I need help. I've told my fiance how important it is for me to feel at home and to nest in his new home before I move across the states. I cannot get him and his mother to stop decorating for about 4 months. I can't tell him I don't like things because he likes them and he'll rant about how it works. he's not listening. I'm offended. I think they should be doing anything to make me feel comfortable in "their" world. 9,000sq.ft. and I'll only have a small craft room as mine. Is it wrong to not want to get married anymore? I really don't think I'm important enough and I hate men that control and decorate because he's paying and his mom and him just want things to get settled. I've talked to him once a week. I get quiet and he gets mad. Then he goes ahead and puts up the lights and drawer pulls he picked. Help me please. I don't want to marry these two and I will not be treated so unspecial.

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  67. I agree with Debra. Remi, my companion and I do everything together including our work, so there is no question that one or the other of us should dominate the decisions about our home. It is, after all, where we both spend the majority of our time.

    Both of our tastes as have shifted as we have grown older together, but that just makes for an ecclectic look! We have a standing agreement that if either of us really is against something, which is rare, we just let it drop and move on to something else.

    A wonderful post as always--thank you!

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  68. Jolina: Whatever you do, DO NOT marry this man! If this is how he treats you now, when he's supposedly madly in love with you, it's only going to get worse when the honeymoon is over. You can do so match better!

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  69. Oh, this makes me laugh! While my husband's decorating sensibilities are actually pretty good, I did not know what I was getting into when I asked for this sweet man's input in decorating our dining room. The room is windowless, very tricky to decorate and we had left it "undone" for nine years until we came up with the right idea and that was to have an artist paint a custom mural above the chair rail. We took many pictures of Charleston and the low country for inspiration; two years after we approved the artist's model rendering, our exquisite mural was installed and all that was needed to make the room perfect was a pair of antique mirrors to give the room some sparkle and the illusion of windows. My husband went absolutely BERSERK over the idea that I would do ANYTHING to cover one tiny inch of what has become "his mural"! He has become the dining room nazi and will not even discuss the possibility so the room, while lovely, still feels like a dark cave! I will not be asking for his assistance going forward!

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  70. " ... a man lives in his wife's house ..."

    when Don proposed to me ... he asked me to be his lifetime interior designer ... SO
    when he questions something ( rarely)
    I say, "hey remember you ASKED me to do this"


    hahaha
    BUT
    when designer with a client, I am verwwy verwwy carwweful and sensitive the the men.

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  71. If the subject was the family's finances, and the husband was more interested and educated on those issues, would you think that the wife should butt out and let the husband handle the finances his way?

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  72. Oh my goodness! I am cracking up reading this post as it has brought back soooo many memories of living with my first husband for 23 years. What is so interesting is how primal and similar men are. We all like to think that we are so different but the majority of men and women are wired the same way. I came to this realization after marrying again and encountering the same arguments regarding wood and leather. With my first husband, I managed to get away with no ceiling fans and pretty much everything else I wanted. However, i never won the flippin argument over the paneling!!! At least it was the extremely expensive walnut paneling that was really beautiful with lots of moulding details. It was just soo BROWN!

    As a decorator, the words from your therapist will help me in the future in dealing with couples who are fighting over decorating decisions.

    Great, great post!

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  73. Early in my marriage I wanted my husband to have input in the decorating decisions to the point of almost begging for his opinions. This was frustrating to me, because it seemed that the more I sought his input the more he was reluctant to give it. Then, a wise older lady told me to be glad that he didn't want to have a say. After contemplating what she said I stopped asking him and did what I wanted while still making a conscious effort to not make everything so frilly & feminine. To be honest, however, I don't think he would even notice or care if everything was. It takes him weeks before he notices a new piece or new furniture arrangement (or maybe he's just not saying anything). He does smile and stick out his chest when visitors go on and on about the decor (like he had anything to do with it-lol). He only seems to want a comfortable chair and would have a TV in every room if I'd go along with it.

    Dear Jolina,
    APPLY THE BRAKES NOW!!! Perhaps Mom needs to butt out. Try having a serious heart-to-heart with your fiance. Their behavior may be a warning sign. (Is he making decisions without you because: 1) you are not able to travel to where his is to give your input, 2) he's frustrated with a project that's gone over budget and over schedule? Also, did he ask for Mom's input? Whatever you do, don't get out of your apartment lease or sell your current home yet until certain issues are resolved.

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  74. Oh I am so so lucky!! Forty years as a decorator; and married to my second husband for 35!

    He has always said: "You know what you are doing!" And when people compliment us on our house; he says "All I did was marry the best decorator!"

    Truly, though, he loves our house and loves how it looks, but he is simply not visual.

    He loves the overall feeling; but does not notice the "details"; I think I will do a "before and after" blog about "de-cluttering" when we put our house on the market.

    My friend said , "there is way too much of you"! It's all too personal, people can't picture themselves here". So my assistant and I packed up 21 boxes of accessories and collections!

    He said, "Wait a minute! This is our "nest"! I don't want to live in the desert!"

    I said if he missed anything, I can put it back together.

    He came in afterwards, and said, "What on earth is in those boxes?"

    And my very visual 12 year old granddaughter came in and said....."Where are they? EEEK! Where are they? EEEK! Granny, did you get robbed?!?"

    Men do have some weird religion about painting "brown wood"; I have been dealing with that my entire career!

    I explain that I don't want to paint "good wood"; but most of the panelling and reproduction furniture is not good wood! No painting antiques for heaven's sake.
    Not many people could look at that hideous fireplace and not agree!!

    I think every woman who has this problem needs to read your article!!! And then show the pictures to her husband! (not the psychological stuff!)

    ps Joni, most people (not just men) cannot visualize what something will look like. That is why we have such a fun job!!!

    Brava!

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  75. Haven't had to deal with this my self, but one friend of mine broke down in tears to her husband's best friend after he vetoed everything she'd picked months ago. His best friend had been husband's former divorce attorney, and he gave free advice. Men (in a straight traditional marriage) should let the woman decorate. Much less expensive.

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  76. This is a great post, Joni! I am so fortunate in that my hubby (of 43 years) and I have VERY similiar taste! He actually DOES care about our home and how it looks and what goes in it BUT he also trusts my taste and wants me to be happy so never says NO to something. The only thing I HATE in our house is the Gog awful sofa and love seat (with built in recliners) that he LOVED and wanted for our family room downstairs. I ahve lived with those monstrosities for too many years now:):) XO,Pinky

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  77. As always, your post is entertaining. When we recently underwent a major home renovation, my husband handled electronics only. I decided on everything else. After a few months of living in our newly renovated home he asked me why I hadn't complimented him on his contribution to the project. What does one say about 3 flat screen TVs located within a 20 ft. radius of each other and a closet full of blue rays and other stuff that I have no clue how to use? Another thing he insisted on was installing an industrial size Viking grill on our porch so he can grill year round. The thing has turned out to be a total nightmare. He doesn't know how to use it and won't let anyone come and show him how. The hood has already been replaced with a bigger one to suck up all the smoke that fills the house when he cooks on it. Take my advice, NEVER allow your partner to talk you into this unless he/she is a professional chef. I almost killed out architect when she said it was okay. Can you tell I'm bitter?

    Thanks for another great post!

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  78. This subject is a major problem in our house. You would think my husband would have learned when I let him pick out the color for our bedroom and he selected a sort of fluorecent aqua. We lived with it for years and he finally admitted that he hated it too. I got to redecorate after that one. It makes me feel a little better to hear that he's pretty much like most of the guys described by your readers. But I swear, I'm going to take some wire cutters to all the cables in our family room connected to the TV and all those ugly black boxes.

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  79. JOLINA - if you are real and serious, i would rethink this. i can't imagine how insenstive he must be - it sounds like you are recognizing this yourself. perhaps move there and put the wedding on hold for a while to see if it gets better???? I wish i could help more. But I would wait a while. if its meant to be, a few more months wont make a difference.



    EVERYONE: thanks for all your great stories!!! loved them!!!!

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  80. ok, this is funny. of course ben and elisabeth never read my blog, but elisabeth's boyfriend does. so we were discussing this - and talking about "inviting the man into the bedroom" ala charlotte moss and ben's ears perk up and he says, what??? who says that? that is the stupidest thing i have ever h eard!!!! it was so funny!!! of course i think our bedroom is very feminine and he wouldn't care if it were even more feminine, but he doesn't like that he is invited into it! omg. omg.

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  81. Joni, thank you so much for a wonderful post which speaks to me directly since I am the proud owner of the finally painted brick in our living room. I knew there were a lot of people out there with similar issues. I adore my husband but he does have his opinions on what should or should not be painted. I loved reading all the comments, some with similar issues and some that are fortunate not to have those issues. Those who are the lucky ones, be thankful.

    Funny that Ben's ears perked up on the issue of men being invited into the bedroom. I'd love to hear that conversation.

    Thanks for including the living room in your post. It took only 15 years to finally paint the brick. Yippee!!! Hope other readers have a shorter duration.

    deanie

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  82. It is such a superb and an amazing article, and so true. I like the questions and it explains so many aspects of the difference between men and women. Great to share with us.

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  83. I love the after of your room, I really really want a zebra rug they seem so versatile for such a strong pattern.
    I'm lucky, my husband is too bookish to notice clothes or houses!

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  84. I got my husband's support for my art collecting by finding out what he likes... predictably, naked ladies. So we now have various tasteful nudes around the place, and he's happy.

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  85. I loved this article soooo much, I asked my ex husband to read it and he finally go it !! that is the inate difference between men and women. well done

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  86. Oh my gosh, this was spot on target! Currently mine is moaning over the gorgeous new curtains I made: who, after all, needs curtains when their landlord has so generously provided mini-blinds? He is pushing the curtains aside and using the cheap metal mini-blinds anyway! Arrrgh! I am showing this article to him pronto!

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  87. Joni, this article was just perfect! Perfect! I often joke that I should conduct pre-marital design counseling because that is the best time to come to an agreement about decor ... because the husband-to-be is so eager to "close the deal" that he'll agree to just about anything! My hubby lets me do what I want in our house (hallelujah!) but when we first got married, this was our deal - I could do anything I wanted in the house (except the bonus room), but if he *hated* it, he got to veto. He could do anything he wanted in the bonus room, but if I *hated* it, I got to veto. You exercise veto rights sparingly so as not to be vetoed on your choices! ;-) That being said, he never vetoed me and I vetoed several of his more questionable decisions ...

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  88. I just linked to your article! It really is just perfect! I will say that most of the husbands I work with are on board ... There are only a few reluctant ones, but usually they come around!! ;-)

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  89. My mother's neighbor was French and worked as social secretary at the Embassy in Washington DC - On Bastille Day one year she had a party - I wanted to see her home - she showed me the bedroom first: she said to a Frenchwoman, the bedroom decoraton is done first as it is the most important room - in her opinion, Americans set great store by the looks of the living room - a room they seldom used.
    Hmmm... Jim Belushi, definitely not effeminite in any way, once appeared in an article about his home life - it showed the bedroom which had pink walls - he said he wanted it to be a room a woman would be comfortable in! How about that ladies!

    Suzanne on St. Simons

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  90. Oh this is sure to be a hot topic!

    That magazine is a beautiful work of art in and of itself. So many great articles!

    For the past year I have been ready to lose the Tuscan family room we have now had for 7 years.
    I am married to Mr. "If it's not wore out, why replace it?"
    Before when this situation happened I would use the money I made from design clients to make small changes over time. More often than not, as I slowly transformed a room, and my husband saw the new things in place he agreed that he loved it. But as you well know there have not been alot of design clients and my personal redecorating funds are currently non existent.
    This past week something snapped and I felt like screaming "If I have to look at the bronze overstuffed chair one more day...."
    Given that my husband currently has a hard work load I did not say anything. Yet my discontent reared its head in the form of insomnia. Last night he said, "If you don't tell me what's going on in your head... I can't take the thought of you not sleeping another night."
    My reply was "I need to change the drapes and the couch." He started laughing. I did too. I was losing sleep over a couch!
    This morning the couch is being placed on Craiglist. The room might be bare for awhile but at least I will be sleeping.

    On another note, hubby and I went through IVF to get our Sweet Boy, now grade 4. Aren't we lucky ducks?

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  91. I'm reminded of a couple I know where the husband had all of the taste and the wife was stuck in the Waverly patterns of her childhood home. And even though she had a challenging full-time job and was largely indifferent to design, it became a running battle between the two of them because she thought it was "supposed" to be her job to decorate the house because her mother told her it was so. The marriage didn't last, of course.

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  92. It's rarely a problem in our household. However, I don't try to change my husband. I don't want to do our house just "my" way - it's "our" home and I want his input. It's worked for us for almost 30 years.

    tina

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  93. running to check things out now....
    xxx

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  94. When my husband and I got married and bought our first house (a fixer upper) I knew we would butt heads with design choices based on every stick of ugly furniture he owned when I met him. We would shop for furniture for the house together and never end up agreeing on anything because he would always get overwhelmed with all the fabric and finish options. We would go home frustrated and empty handed. When it came time to remodel our kitchen, he wanted to be included in the decision making (I knew it would be a nightmare) but due to work he was often unavailable for shopping excursions and the contractor would need choices immediately. Then I stumbled onto something, I would bring home 2-3 options for my husband to choose from. I knew in advance that I could live with any of the 3 options he picked since I chose what I wanted, without a lot of time to waste he would always choose from the options I put in front of him. I did it with all the choices throughout the entire house remodel, carpet, wood floors, tile, furniture, paint color, you name it, he got 2-3 options. We ended up with a comfortable and beautiful home we both loved, that got lots of compliments, and he told everyone he designed it, "I picked everything", he would say proudly. I would agree and say "luckily my husband and I have the same taste". That rang such a bell with him that now in our second home, another fixer upper, when it comes to picking finishes etc., he says "go ahead and get what you like, we have the same taste." Thankfully, we really do... now.

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    1. I do this, too! I started with our wedding china. Offered him three choices from which to chose. Worked like a charm (turns out, he just didn't want a design on the eating surface - but I could have any design I wanted along the rim).

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  95. My husband is pretty complaint as long as he doesn't have to "help decide." However, sometimes he does let me know when he really likes a design idea.

    Also, what is the paint color in the living room photo with the lantern? I notice it above the fireplace. Love it!

    Jennifer S

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  96. Husbands typically detest me, the hired garden designer girl.

    Doesn't take long before wife is calling me saying, "John said to get Tara's thoughts on ......."

    Have had many wives apologize to me for their husband's behavior.

    Those husbands ALWAYS come around to OUR way of thinking.

    Don't you love smirking with a wife behind her husband's back !! The most delicious part, he think's it's all his idea.

    Though, about 15% of my clients are incredibly enthused men.

    Garden & Be Well, XO T

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  97. This is one of those times when it would be fun if husbands read your blog! Wouldn't it be great to read their comments? Surely we could learn something from a man who has felt so respected by his wife that he in turn respects her desire to create a pretty home (within a budget of course!). Mutual respect is the key.

    Great thoughts, Joni!
    xo,
    Linsey

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  98. I guess I'm lucky. My husband lets me do pretty much what I want. As long as we can afford it.

    He's a keeper!

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  99. OH how I LOVED reading this! You had me laughing and smiling! My sweet husband is constantly championing my dreams when it comes to our home. He is wonderful and I am fortunate.

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  100. Wonderful post!
    I am now resenting the ceiling fan in our family room.
    (even though it is HOT here in Atlanta!)
    PLEASE let me know where I can find that fabulous lantern in your family room!

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  101. This post is so very true! I am on the fortunate side because my husband is a well traveled and well dressed engineer (he picks his own clothes)and has discerning taste, though not as adventurous as me. He does have an opinion about everything and therefore we have picked everything in our house together, except for the antique corner chair upholstered in cow hide (I bought it on a whim and he had to get used to it because I REALLY liked it and the hide). It usually takes us a while to finally buy something, and sometimes I have to make "presentations" with fabric samples and pictures to help him visualize it, especially when the piece I'm proposing is outside of his comfort zone. I've come to treat him almost like a client, patiently making my case and explaining my design thought process; heck I even borrow the furniture from the showrooms so he can see it in the house. I always take into consideration his style, and we pride ourselves in having made a home together that pleases both our tastes. I will say that after 10 years together he knows me so well as to never suggest we buy recliners or sectionals; but he did insist we buy a handsome tufted leather settee (which quickly grew on me and he thinks the leather is "so nice"); and he is still not convinced that we should paint the (stained) kitchen cabinets white! I will work on that ;)

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  102. I've been going through this EXACT thing with my husband of 6 years. We finally purchased our first home that has beautiful decorative door casings and solid wood doors, that I think would look amazing white. He told me semi jokingly that if I ever painted it he would file for divorce. I even tried a compromise suggesting white trim and leaving the doors stained. He has a man cave. Not a pretend one or even just an office. No, he has a room just for him that has leather couches and probably 20 animal heads and antlers on the walls, but he still refuses to "let" me make the house a home my way. It's been very frustrating. I am going to try this and hopefully this will help. Wish me luck. Thanks for the article!

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  103. I saw a light go on in my husband's eyes when I explained that the affirmation he feels when someone gives hime kudos at work is the same affirmation I feel when someone walks into my home and says, "Wow, this is beautiful."

    Men get most of their identity in their job and few realize that it's very different for women. He was shocked to realize that I'm constantly looking for ideas and things I want to try whenever I enter a house or look at photos.

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  104. Oh man, I laughed and nodded my head while reading the whole article. I absolutely love what you wrote. It's so true! I don't know what it is with men and wood, but my boyfriend has a panic attack anytime I mention painting something wood! You should have heard him when I wanted to paint the mantle white!

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  105. Hi,
    My Dad was in the Canadian Army for over 30 years. When we were kids we had: a pink room for the girl(s), a blue room for the boy(s) and a yellow room for the parents. That was it! They weren't allowed to decorate any other way. Through the years that "decorating" went away and the whole house was painted builders' beige. My Mom always said that when they finally moved into own home, if she wanted to paint a room black, she would paint it black! That never happened but they finally did have colour in their home. For me now, as a renter, I do have limitation but I take full advantage of those limitations as far as colour on the walls is concerned.
    I am the one, though, that just can't paint my beautiful oak, walnut or mahogany furniture. I see the miraculous transformations on blogs and love them - just not for me. I have a cat not a husband so I'm 100% to blame. Now, on the other hand, I had an old maple hutch and cabinet given to me last week and I fully intend on painting it. Only because I don't like maple. So there is hope!
    Cathy

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  106. This is a very frustrating problem for me. My husband is very much into leather and heavy wood furniture look. I love cottage, beach house themes. I have already been talked into a heavy wood dining set...Pine Valley Diningroom by Rooms to Go

    http://www.roomstogo.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=showRoom&roo_id=14761

    when I wanted a look from Amoroso Design-Burlingame One - California Cottage.

    http://www.amoroso-design.com/projects/burlingameone/index.php

    I even found the used set to repaint and re-upholster.

    I don't want cookie cutter decor.

    We are looking for a sofa. I will go with a Navy Blue leather, fluffy sofa. I am letting him have two leather recliners because I want two complimentary, comfy chairs. We CANNOT find a navy blue leather sofa...so I told him we have to have a custom upholstery job. Now, he is looking at WHITE leather sofas.

    Sara did it in her beach cottage, so I am almost going to go that route...

    http://www.abeachcottage.com/beach-cottage-tour

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  107. Please help me!! My boyfriend and I have been living together for the past 2 years at a "neutral" place abroad, where we met. Three months ago we came back to his homecountry and we are currently living at "his" place. Ok.. the whole place is decorated in honor of reggae... yes, you read it right. Some walls are yellow, others are red, and... the kitchen and bathroom are both green. To make matters worse, he also went through a Native-American phase, so... hanging on the yellow living room wall, he has a portrait of a Cherokee Indian Chief that his sister painted specially for him. To top that, his mother made the red curtains for him.
    Now...
    Can anyone please tell me how to handle this in a civilized way?! He's actually proud of his decorating skills, loves his mother's creations and his frikin sister's painting!!! And after all, it is "his" house... but I just feel like jumping out the window every time I see that fugly Indian!!!
    Should I leave him?
    HELP!!
    Please!
    nola_rice00@yahoo.com
    I'm desperate!

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  108. I live with my boyfriend, and the decorating is just horrendous. He has a plastic velociraptor head hanging on the dining room wall. He has hung a fan and dollar store type jewelry on it. It also has on a Batman mask. He finds this crap in the street or trash. He also has a "statue" consisting of a babydoll wearing a maternity dress and felt hat on a pole. When I first saw that thing, I was in disbelief. It is hideous. I would let a pack of wild dogs into the house if they would shred that trash - he did originally find it in the trash. He also regularly bring little knick-knacks into the house from the street.
    Every time I say anything about the junk he gets really upset and mad at me. He goes on and on about how it's his house, and I can't do anything about it. It is actually making me really angry and depressed. I hate all the crap he collects. I cannot get him to throw any of it away or move it to the basement. Most of it is very visible.

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  109. Just read the title; good luck with that.

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  110. I love this blog and this issue certainly hits home with me. My new husband will not relinquish control over some major design and decor decisions. He and my step-son recently moved into my townhome (which I refer to as mini-Versailles with all of its crystal chandeliers, toile du Juoy, damask, and other French-inspired decor) and it has been a battle of wills. My frustration spilled over into an article on my blog, marilyndujour.wordpress.com, about his OBSESSION WITH THE COLOR BROWN. I called it "50 Shades of Grey" ... ha ha. I hope you like it and will consider sharing it with your readers. Look forward to many more posts to come. Thanks for sharing your exquisite taste and sharp writing with us.

    http://marilyndujour.wordpress.com/2012/07/31/50-shades-of-brown/

    Marilyn, Attorney and Francophile
    Orlando

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  111. Would not have worked for me. I was a tomboy as a child, loved playing outdoors, so my answer to the therapist would have been wrong. And even if I had mentioned my dolls, yeah, I had those too, the men in my life wouldn't have got it. They would be thinking, "so what".

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  112. I think you have some great ideas and I'll try some of them. But I must say that some of your comments about men and women are stereotypes and a bit sexist. Not all men want their caves, leather and dark paneling, not all women want to play house and/or like floral patterns. I could use help with a husband who has great taste and wants to be in on the decorating but doesn't want to take the time to review options. He just wants to see it and buy it, so it can take a long time if ever... Thankfully, I have the same tastes as he does but I'm tired of waiting. What would be your suggestion? I like the idea of putting some collages together but I'm not sure that will do the trick...

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  113. I don't think her comments are sexist. I think they are RIGHT ON. I married my husband almost 10 years ago, and moved into his already existing house, and the house has been a source of constant fighting for us. He picked out a houseful of the ugliest furniture imaginable over 15 years ago now, way before he ever met me, and he refuses to get rid of it. There is no way possible to decorate around these monstrosities. Any change that I've ever wanted to make in the hideousness that is his decorating has been met with him acting like a child throwing a temper tantrum. It is maddening. He still thinks of the house as "his" and I am infringing on his precious space. I have come to LOATHE this house, because it is only thing that comes in between us. Other than the house, we are very much in love, and compatible. He is a wonderful father, and husband in every other area. But his decorating, left over from the early 90s, and his unrelenting desire to keep it as is, makes me want to scream.

    I tried to be nice about it. That didn't work. I tried to be mean about it. That didn't work. Nothing works. And NOTHING has changed in this blasted house for 10 years.

    I cringe when my friends come over, because I feel like the women think this hideousness is MY taste! I have fantastic taste! But nobody would ever know that, because I've never been "allowed" to decorate my own home. Honestly, it makes me sob, A LOT. I totally "get" what the article said about a girl fantasizing about her future home her entire life, and decorating in her mind constantly. When the husband is this unreasonable about letting a wife make changes, it hurts the marriage! Husbands, if you are reading this, I'm telling you straight up. LET YOUR WIFE DECORATE THE DANG HOUSE!!!! Otherwise, she will secretly (and sometimes out loud) resent you for it.

    And for the record, oversized, hunter green, reclining couches (3 of them!!!! In a tight space!!!!) is repulsive. Do NOT make her live for 10 years with that! It's wrong!

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  115. I lost my 15 years relationship during December. My husband left me with so many pains and since then i have been heart broken and shattered. I have contact 7spell casters and 7 of them has rip me off my money without no result. I have Emailed so many sites online looking for a good spell caster untill i was directed by a 20 years old boy to wiseindividualspell@gmail.com: wiseindividualspell@gmail.com At first i never believed him because he was requesting for some amount of money to buy items to cast the spell, it took him 4 weeks to convince me and something occur to my mind and i said let me give him a trial. I was very shocked when Nichasin called four days after i sent Dr.Zack Balo the items money. He apologies for all he has done wrong and i am very happy that we are together today now because he proposed to marry me. I will advise you contact wiseindividualspell@gmail.com because he has done wonders in my life and i believe he can help you out in any problem.

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  116. I am johnson, i never believed in Love Spells or Magics until I met this special spell caster when i went to Africa to Execute some business..He is really

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    she packed all her loads from my house..i ran mad and i tried all i could to have her back but all did not work out..i was lonely for almost 4 years…So when

    i told the spell caster what happened he said he will help me and he asked for her full name and her picture..i gave him that..At first i was skeptical but i

    gave it a try cos h ave tried so many spell casters and there is no solution…so when he finished with the readings,he got back to me that she’s with a man

    and that man is the reason why she left me…The spell caster said he will help me with a spell that will surely bring her back.but i never believe all this…he

    told me i will see a positive result within 3 days..3 days later,she called me herself and came to me apologizing and she told me she will come back to me..I

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    anyone who has similar problem and still looking for a way out..you can reach him here: ophanprayertemple@yahoo.com

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  117. Am Vicky Ben from Canada. I never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in may this year on a business summit. I meant a man who’s name is DR.ogogorotemple@yahoo.com he is really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 4years. I really loved him, but his family was against us and he had no good paying job. So when i met this spell caster, i told Dr Ogogoro what happened and explained the situation of things to him. At first i was undecided, skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. And in 8 days when i returned to USA, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job and our lives became much better. His email is ogogorotemple@yahoo.com

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  118. THE ONLY TRUTHFUL SPELL CASTER AND MY GOD WILL REWORD YOU

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    I have contacted several spell casters to help me bring back my lover and after my ex he left me and my son for 2 yrs and moved in with another woman and all this spell caster they usually promise me and at the end fail me.
    Hello To The World At Large, I am Miss WISE, From united states of America. I will start by saying to all that have experience heart break and also cant do with out there lover should please stop here and read up my story, So as you will know how to go solving or getting your ex back from this spell caster AND AGAIN I WANT TO ALSO TELL ALL THIS SPELL CASTER, I WILL WANT TO TELL THE WHOLE WORLD ABOUT IS HARMLESS AND DO NOT HAVE ANY SIDE EFFECT, BUT TO RESTORE AND GIVE YOU BACK WHAT YOU DESIRE, COS WHEN I MEET WITH THIS SPELL CASTER THAT WAS INTRODUCED TO ME BY THE WIFE OF MY BOSS IN MY WORKING PLACE, HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE CAN CAST SPELL ON SO MANY OTHER PROBLEMS EXCEPT IN GETTING YOUR EX OR MAKING YOUR LOVER TO LOVE YOU MORE THAT WILL SUITE YOU. Last year December, My lover was cheating on me and was not also give me the attention that a man should give to a woman, And really that was troubling my mind and tearing my heart apart to the extent that i was not concentrating in the office the way i use to before the break up by my lover.And before that incident,I always see how my boss use to love his wife so much. I was binging to think that i was not doing the right thing to him that will make him love me forever, So i really gathered my courage and went to my aboss wife office to ask her the secret that made her husband love her so dearly,In the first place she refused in telling me,She asked me why i am asking her such a question,That if is it not normal for every man to love his wife.I told her the reason that made me ask her about this question, That my lover started cheating on me lately, When i knelt down before her for her to see my seriousness in this issue that i went to ask her, She opened up to me by telling me that i should not tell anybody about what she want to tell me, The wife to my boss started to say to me that she used a very powerful spell on his husband to love her, And the spell that she used is harmless, But the spell is just to make him love her and never to look for any other woman except her. I QUICKLY ASK HER HOW DID SHE GET TO KNOW THIS GREAT, POWER, DURABLE AND PERFECT WORK SPELL CASTER, she said that a friend of hers also introduce her to him. Then i also ask her how i can meet with this spell caster. SHE SAID EVERYTHING TO ME, THAT THE NAME OF THIS SPELL CASTER IS DR. ODUBU. My next question to her was how can i get this wonderful spell caster, She said she is going to give me the email of the spell caster for me to contact him for my problem, really she gave to me this spell caster email and i contacted him and explained all to him, And after every thing that needed to be done by the spell caster, In the next three days, My lover that hated me so much came to my house begging for forgiveness and i was so glad that i have finally gotten my heart desire..I was so grateful to this spell caster for what he has done for my life.. So i made a promise to him that i will always continue telling the world about his wonderful work towards me and also to other that came to you before and also the people that will also get to you from my story that i narrated online now..I will want to say to the entire world that you should not cry over noting again, That there is a great man that has been helping individuals to restore there Joy and smile !! The direct email to get this man is : {odubuspiritualtempledr@yahoo.com} ,This is what i want to tell you all out there, That is thinking that all hope is lost {+447012973504}.Thanks Regards, Miss WISE.

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  119. My name is cynthia and my ex-boyfriend dumped me 8 months ago after I caught him of having an affair with someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and don't know what to do, so I visited the INTERNET for help and I saw a testimony on how a spell caster help them to get their ex back so I contact this spell caster and explain my problems to him..... he cast a spell for me and assure me of 3 days that my ex will return to me and to my greatest surprise the third day my peter came knocking on my door and beg for forgiveness. I am so happy that my love is back again and not only that, we are about to get married. Once again thank you Dr Ejemen spell caster, you are truly talented and gifted contact his email:(ejemenpelltemple@live.com}

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  120. I'm a living testimony to what Therapist Oniha did for me.I was married for 9years but no child because of this my husband left me for another woman.I was helpless until one day I saw a testimony on how this Therapist cure barreness and restore broken marriage,so i contacted him and i did all he ask me to do.To my greatest surprise after 4days my husband came home asking for forgiveness,not just that i became pregnant after 5weeks.I'm forever grateful to Therapist Oniha.if you are in same problem you can contact him via email winexbackspell@gmail.com he will solve your problem.

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  121. ha-ha, this is my favorite reason for being single! I don't have to compromise or convince anyone:)

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  123. I want to use this opportunity to thank Dr. Olokum for helping me get my lover back after he left me few months ago. I have sent friends and my brothers to beg him for me but he refused that it is all over between both of us but when I met this Dr. Olokum he told me to relaxed that every thing will be fine and really after just a week I got my man back. so thank you so much Olokum. here is the email and phone number of Dr. Olokum LAVEDERLOVESPELL@gmail.com

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  124. This is a testimony that I will tell to every one to hear. I have been married four 4years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until I met a post where this man DR OLOKUM have helped someone and I decided to give him a try to help me bring my lover back home and believe me I just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, I saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why I am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self. His email: lavenderlovespell@yahoo.com.

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  125. hello every body on this forum........
    MY Name is Heather Brown,am from United States i want to share my life experience to every body on this site.i was in a serious relationship with john, i love him so much we have dated for almost 5 years now.until he meant another girl called Sandra he told me that he is know longer interested in dating me any more. i was so confuse i don't know what to do.so i told my friend about what my love just told me and she told me that she can solve my problem i was doubting her how can that be possible.so she directed me to a spell caster called Dr saga mudo.so i contacted him victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com and i explain every thing to him and he told me that my problem will be solved within two days if i believe i said OK.So he cast a spell for me and after two days my love came back to me begging me on his knees on the ground asking me to forgive him.Am so happy now. so that why i decided to share my experience with every body that have such problem contact him email;victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com is a great man in case you are facing any kind of problem please contact him he will solve your problem for you once again thanks victorylifelovespelltemple@gmail.com

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  126. This is a testimony that I will tell to every one to hear. I have been married for 4years and on the 5th year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until I met a post where this man DR Olorun have helped someone and I decided to give him a try to help me bring my lover back home and believe me I just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, I saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why I am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self. His email: ( olorunoduduwaspiritualtemple@gmail.com ) ,or call him on +2348165219949

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  127. i am Mrs mercy i am hear to give testimony of how i got back my husband, we got married for more than 2 years and have gotten two kids. thing were going well with us and we are always happy. until one day my husband started to behave in a way i could not understand, i was very confused by the way he treat me and the kids. later that month he did not come again and he called me that he want a divorce, I asked him what have i done wrong to deserve this from him, all he was saying that he want a divorce and that he hates me and do not want to see me again in his life, i was mad and also frustrated do not know what to do,i was sick for more than 2 weeks because of the divorce. i love him so much he was everything to me without him my life is incomplete. i told my sister and she told me to contact a spell caster, i never believe in all this spell casting of a thing. i just
    want to try if something will come out of it. I contacted DR. omoba for the return of my husband to me, they told me that my husband have been taken by another woman that she cast a spell on him that is why he hates me and also want us to divorce. then they told me that they have to cast a spell on him that will make him return to me and the kids, they cast the spell and after 3 days my husband called me
    and he told me that i should forgive him, he settled to apologize on phone and said that he still love me that he did not know what happen to him that he left me. it was the spell that the Dr omoba shrine casted on him that made him comeback to me today,me and my family are now happy again today. thank you DR. omoba for what you have done for me i would have been nothing today if not for your great spell. i want
    you my friends who are passing through this kind of love problem of getting back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact dromobaspellhome@gmail.com and you will see that your problem will be solved.

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  128. My fiancé won't budge on letting me decorate the living room. I offered to give him a man cave but he insists the livingroom is his room and I am not to touch it. No rug, no throws, no pillows. Just Poofy leather recliners, a vertical video game rack next to the TV, and comic books. I will never have company.

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  129. My name is Miss. Camille Bruno Valdez; I am out here to spread this good news to the entire world on how I got my ex love back. I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month, But when I meet a friend that introduce me to DR DAHIRU the great messenger to the oracle that he serve, I narrated my problem to DR DAHIRU about how my ex love left me and also how I needed to get a job in a very big company. He only said to me that i have come to the right place were I will be getting my heart desire without any side effect. He told me what i need to do, After it was been done, In the next 2 days, My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness, I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director.. I am so happy and overwhelmed that I have to tell this to the entire world to contact DR DAHIRU at the following email address and get all your problem solve.. No problem is too big for him to solve. Contact him direct on: arewaspecialisttemple@yahoo.com . And get your problems solve like me..... ONCE AGAIN HIS EMAIL ADDRESS IS: arewaspecialisttemple@yahoo.com

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  130. Greetings to you that is reading this testimony. My name is Andrea Ramsay, I have been rejected by my husband after three(3) years of marriage, he left me and the kid to suffer, one day when i was reading through the web, i saw a post on how this spell caster on this address ajagbotemple@gmail.com have help a woman to get back her husband and i gave him a reply to his address and he told me that a woman had a spell on my husband and he told me that he will help me and after 3 days that i will have my husband back, i believed him and today i am glad to let you all know that this spell caster have the power to bring lovers back, because i am now happy with my husband. his spells is for a better life. His email again is ajagbotemple@gmail.com

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  131. Hello this is not a play ground if you want to be a member go ahead and say it
    you will only pay for the material that will are going to use for your initiation.

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  132. thank you Dr. Simon for bringing back my ex husband that left me and my kids for good 2 years.i don't have much to say i just wanna say a big thank keep on your good work you can also email him at oksolutemple@outlook.com

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  133. A big thanks to DR CUBATEMPLE, who brought back
    my
    ex girlfriend. My name is sonia pual, from
    Canada. Last year, August
    26th 2012, I proposed to my
    ex boyfriend and she agreed to marry me then we both planned for the wedding. Our wedding was
    to hold September
    30th. We had a little
    misunderstanding and she left me for another
    guy. I almost committed
    suicide; I never knew there was hope for me, a friend of mine would always advise me to be
    hopeful and that one day she will
    come back to me, Some
    times I will go to her house to ask for forgiveness
    to come back to me because she
    really means a lot to me and I love her so much and she will ask me to leave her alone and I
    should never come to her
    house again. I found it
    really hard to fall in love with another girl, months
    passes by and I was
    waiting patiently for her to come back to me but in my heart I was still going through hell, there
    was a big hole in my
    heart.
    * *One morning I received a call from my friend
    and he told me to come to
    his house immediately, I quickly put on my clothes and ran to his house because I felt he was in
    trouble, when I got to he’s
    house, I met him on
    his computer system and I ask him what the
    problem was, he said when he was
    browsing through the internet, he came across some testimonies on how a spell caster brought
    someone’s ex husband back.
    I was angry with him
    because he frightened me and now he’s telling
    about spell caster. I told
    him to forget about the matter because I never believed in spell casters, he asked me if I really
    want my ex boyfriend to
    come back to me and I said
    yes so he said I should give it a try because if you
    really need something
    that is very important to your life, then you go for it. I agreed to what he said and I took the spell
    casters email address
    and I emailed him, few
    minutes later he replied me and asked what can
    he do for me so I told him
    what I wanted and he asked me to do what ever he asked of me which I did. He told me not to
    worry that my ex boyfriend will
    come back crawling on
    her kneels asking for forgiveness as soon as he
    cast the spell so he cast
    the spell and the following day my ex boyfriend came back to me, right now I and my girlfriend
    are happy. This is the reason I
    decided to put it in
    writing so that anybody that is hopeless will find
    the reason to be
    hopeful. If you are in the same situation, DR cuba is the right spell caster that will solve
    your problem, You can email
    him
    on: drcubatemple@gmail.com. try and
    see what he can do

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  134. WONDERFUL MAN THAT GIVE MY FAMILY JOY AND HAPPINESS AND MAY GOD BLESS YOU ,
    I AM SO SORRY FOR PEOPLE THAT HAVE CONTACTED A WRONG SPELL CASTER AND THIS ONLY WAY OF SUCCESS OF SPELL
    Hello To The World At Large, my name is, From mexico. I will start by saying to all that have experience heart break and also cant do with out there lover should please stop here and read up my story, So as you will know how to go solving or getting your ex back from this spell caster AND AGAIN I WANT TO ALSO TELL ALL THIS SPELL CASTER, I WILL WANT TO TELL THE WHOLE WORLD ABOUT IS HARMLESS AND DO NOT HAVE ANY SIDE EFFECT, BUT TO RESTORE AND GIVE YOU BACK WHAT YOU DESIRE, COS WHEN I MEET WITH THIS SPELL CASTER THAT WAS INTRODUCED TO ME BY THE WIFE OF MY BOSS IN MY WORKING PLACE, HE MADE IT CLEAR THAT HE CAN CAST SPELL ON SO MANY OTHER PROBLEMS EXCEPT IN GETTING YOUR EX OR MAKING YOUR LOVER TO LOVE YOU MORE THAT WILL SUITE YOU. Last year December, My lover was cheating on me and was not also give me the attention that a man should give to a woman, And really that was troubling my mind and tearing my heart apart to the extent that i was not concentrating in the office the way i use to before the break up by my lover.And before that incident,I always see how my boss use to love his wife so much. I was binging to think that i was not doing the right thing to him that will make him love me forever, So i really gathered my courage and went to my boss wife office to ask her the secret that made her husband love her so dearly,In the first place she refused in telling me,She asked me why i am asking her such a question,That if is it not normal for every man to love his wife.I told her the reason that made me ask her about this question, That my lover started cheating on me lately, When i knelt down before her for her to see my seriousness in this issue that i went to ask her, She opened up to me by telling me that i should not tell anybody about what she want to tell me, The wife to my boss started to say to me that she used a very powerful spell on his husband to love her, And the spell that she used is harmless, But the spell is just to make him love her and never to look for any other woman except her. I QUICKLY ASK HER HOW DID SHE GET TO KNOW THIS GREAT, POWER, DURABLE AND PERFECT WORK SPELL CASTER, she said that a friend of hers also introduce her to him. Then i also ask her how i can meet with this spell caster. SHE SAID EVERYTHING TO ME, THAT THE NAME OF THIS SPELL CASTER IS DR.WILLIAMS UMORU. My next question to her was how can i get this wonderful spell caster, She said she is going to give me the email of the spell caster for me to contact him for my problem, really she gave to me this spell caster email and i contacted him and explained all to him, And after every thing that needed to be done by the spell caster, In the next three days, My lover that hated me so much came to my house begging for forgiveness and i was so glad that i have finally gotten my heart desire..I was so grateful to this spell caster for what he has done for my life.. So i made a promise to him that i will always continue telling the world about his wonderful work towards me and also to other that came to you before and also the people that will also get to you from my story that i narrated online now..I will want to say to the entire world that you should not cry over noting again, That there is a great man that has been helping individuals to restore there Joy and smile !! The direct email to get to dr Williams is : {spellwarlords@gmail.com} ,This is what i want to tell you all for more enlistment contact me with this email address:mrsjulliana@gmail.com.. he is so powerful and helpful.....

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  135. Last week prophetkalito the great spell caster brought my husband home to me suddenly after being divorced for a few years. He had married the other woman but it fell apart and he came back to me after 2days of prophetkalito spell to bring him back and it really work. He came to faith in prophetkalito during this time, even when I tried to give up, prophetkalito always brought me back. I love prophetkalito , who makes all things new .i give him all praise he also specialize in all kind of spell like,
    (1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3) You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) You want women/men to run after you.
    (5) If you want a child.
    (6) You want to be rich.
    (7) You want to tie your husband/wife
    to be yours forever.
    (8) If you need financial assistance.
    (9) Herbal care
    (10) If you can be able to satisfy your wife
    sex desire due to low reaction.
    (11) if your menstruation refuse to come out the
    day it suppose or over flows.
    (12) if your work refuse to pay your, people owing you?.
    (13) solve a land issue and get it back.
    (14) Did your family Denny you of your right?
    (15) Let people obey my words and do my which.
    (16) Do you have a low sperm count?

    contact prophetkalito via email: prophetkalito@gmail.com

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  136. My life almost got destroyed, Thanks to the God sent OSHOGUM who rescued me out of my marriage problems NOW, to achieve all that you desire in life to live a happy life, contact great Dr oshogun temple for a betterment of life. i am very happy today to tell the world how great he is because how of much he help me, bring me out of shame and make me smile again just when i thought my life has be concluded in pain and miserable because my man left me when i was two week pregnant then i was advice by my doctor not to work due to my health challenge else i will lose my baby. so i use all the money i have to take care of my unborn child and my self till the seventh months of my pregnancy then i was broke and in pain. life was so difficult till i melt an old college friend who told me about her past life problem and how great Dr oshogum help her. then i ask her how to meet or contact the man and she gave me oshogumspelltemple@live.com and His +2348189075265 to contact him. though i never believe he can help me because i have meet some persons before now and they did not help me. Dr oshogun demanded for items to help me bring my man back though i was broke i have to meet my mother to help me because i really love my man and he is working and earn well. so did all that DR oshogum ask me to do, I was very shocked when Daniel called four days after i sent Dr oshogum the items money. He apologies for all he has done wrong and i should allow him back to my heart. sincerely i am very happy that we are together and my child now know and also live with his dad. sir the Great Dr i am very grateful and happy for what you have done for me. To those that have marriage, relationship or health problem, I will advise you to contact Dr oshogum now via email oshogumspelltemple@live.com or call +2348189075265 because he has done wonders in my life and i believe he can help you out in any problem.
    contact him now via email oshogumspelltemple@live.com or call +2348189075265

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  137. I am so happy to let the whole word know how this powerful spell caster saved my marriage. Everything was going down the drain as my husband can not stop cheating on me with other women. It became used to always heating on me. I tried to make him stop, but I couldn’t help the situation, the more I tried, the harder it becomes. At times we will fight and go apart for some months and we will come back again just because of our kids. One day a friend told me about this spell caster who helped her too, his name is Dr.Ekpikus, she said he uses white magic spells to solve spiritual problems. I decided to give it a try, I contacted him and he told me it will take just 2 to 3 days and I will see great changes in my husband. He actually cast a spell, believe me after 2 to 3 days of the spell, my husband was confessing different names of woman he has slept with. He begged for forgiveness and never to try it again. From that day till now, my mind is at rest. My husband dislike every other women on earth except me. And am so happy to have him for myself alone. The spell caster’s contact is Ekpikuspelltemple@live.com **or call him +2347055029151. You can contact him for any help, he is very powerful and kind

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  138. I am very happy, I wish to share my testimonies with the general public about what this man called Dr Adodo has just done for me , this man has just brought back my lost Ex husband to me with his great spell, i was married to this man called Steven we were together for a long time and we loved our self's but when i was unable to give he a child for 2 years he left me and told me he can't continue anymore then i was now looking for ways to get him back until a friend of mine told me about this man and gave his contact email (dradodojattotemple@yahoo.com) then you won't believe this when i contacted this man on my problems he prepared this spell cast and bring my lost husband back, and after a month i miss my month and go for a test and the result stated am pregnant am happy today am a mother of a baby girl, thank you once again the great Dr Adodo for what you have done for me, if you are out there passing through this same kind of problems you can contact he today on his mail ( dradodojattotemple@yahoo.com) and he will also help you as well.

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  139. HOW I ALMOST LOST MY EX FOR ANOTHER WOMAN

    Thanks to this great man of spirit called Dr UNOKO which I don't know how to thank him for the good work he has Done for me and family which I want to share my testimony with to you all so I was married to Hassan Moel and my name is vanell, for six years now he left me with two kids with know reason which I don't know what to do.so one day i was in my friends place when I exposed my pain to her about my depression which I have be looking for who to help me out of it then my friend called me closer to her self telling me on how she got this great man of spirit who helped her found her way to get her husband back then I ask of his contact she quickly go and get her computer and gave me his Email ID and his number so,that is how I contacted him for a help. And now am so happy with my family and with a happy home if you are in such pain kindly Via Email DR.UNOKOSPELLTEMPLE30@GMAIL.COM or call +2348103508204 have faith in him and he will help you

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  140. Am Sharon Mabe am a business woman and i do invest a lot on my business but everything don't go on well my business always going down i always have great loss and other of my friends who we are in the same business are always making it, so i just believed that the devil is at it again but i thank God this man of God called Dr Lumba came into the picture i came in contact with this man after reading some wonderful things about him which then i asked him if he can help me pray for my business and that i just took a loan so i can start again so Dr Lumba told me not to worry that i should just kindly said part of the money to him so he can pray on the money which i did i never got scared of him ripping me off my money because i kindly believed in Dr Lumba so then after i sent him the money he did some prayers on it and after 2 days he sent back my money and then i invested the money into my business believe with 3 days my business started flourishing people where liking my product from different countries and i even paid back the bank there money before it lapped the months i told them i would pay off when i paid back the bank they where shocked saying its just 1 week that i took this loan and now i am paying off i said yes that lots of people paid ahead and demanded for more stuff so i needed to supply them so i just had to pay you people off, am so happy my friends are wondering how i made everything so easy but they don't believe me when i say its the God of Dr Lumba who has helped me out am so happy that at last my business has improved please in case you need any help about your business just kindly contact DR LUMBA ON drlumbahomeofsolution@gmail.com or cell number +2348112867024

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  141. my Names is john roselin,AM from usa.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once when i went to Africa in June last year on a business summit i ment a man called PRINCE AYAWU, is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love s gone misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job i m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 4weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 3 year i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try and in 6 days when i returned to Vancouver my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married i didn't believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help his email address: templeofgreatness@gmail.com

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  142. First of all, Am just short of words i don't know what to say, am so grateful to Dr ogala for what he has done for me. At first i thought he was a scam like two others that i worked with, but i just decided to contact him then he told me that my lover will be back home within 4days. On the forth day, my husband called me and said he was sorry for the frequent argument and fight, i was so happy that my husband who left me for over 2 years called me. Now we are together he can't do without me, he always wants me to be by his side and he just bought me a new car. If you want to contact him for help, his email is Ogalalovespell@gmail.com

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  143. After 9 years in marriage with my hubby with 3 kids, my husband started going out with other ladies and showed me cold love, on several occasions he threatens to divorce me if I dare question him about his affair with other ladies, I was totally devastated and confused until a old friend of mine told me about a spell caster on the internet Dr. Trust who help people with the relationship and marriage problem by the powers of love spells, at first I doubted if such thing ever exists but decided to give it a try, when I contact him, he helped me cast a spell and within 24hours my husband came back to me and started apologizing, now he has stopped going out with ladies and he his with me for good and for real. Contact this great spell caster for your relationship or marriage problem at ultimatespellcast@gmail.com. Goodluck

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  144. friends.My name is dennis i based in Chicago.I never believed in all spell-casting.I Have been scammed by 5different people.I lost hope in them.My ex left me.I was devastated.I lost my job.My best friend saw my plight.Then he introduced me to dr favor.I Was told his work is free.I Never believed until i got in touch with him.He did a spell for me.My ex came back in less than 72hrs.I was recalled at my place of work.I Was even promoted immediatelty.I couldn't believe there is a real prophet out there who does free spells.I only paid in appreciation after the spell had worked.He doesn't charge anybody until the spell has worked.You shouldn't be decieved by all these scammers that are here for money.dr favor doesn't charge.You can only choose to pay after the spell has worked.Try him and see what i am saying.These are the few things he does
    *HE BRING BACK LOST LOVERS IN 24hrs.
    *REMOTE CONTROL OVER LOVERS.
    *ALL TYPES OF SPELL CASTING & VOODOO WORKER.
    * IS YOUR HEALER TAKING LONG TO SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS? THIS IS YOUR CHANCE TO BE HELPED QUICKLY.
    *GET RIDE OF ANY WITCHCRAFT, BAD LUCK & CURSES.
    * EXPERT IN DISTANCE HEALING
    *COURT CASES EVEN IF ONE IS CONVICTED[IF THERE'S A CHANCE OF APPEALING]
    *IS SOME BODY JEALOUS WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
    *UNFINISHED JOBS BY OTHER DOCTORS-IF NOT SATISFIED-COME TO ME.
    *ARE YOU BEING FORCED INTO A DIVORCE?
    *HE PREVENT BAD LUCK AND JEALOUSY.
    *TO WIN HORSES AND GAMBLING.



    *HE CAN STOP SOME ONE INTERFERING WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
    * DO YOU WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN OF YOUR CHOICE
    *DO YOU WANT QUICK MARRIAGE PROPOSAL?
    *HE CAN CLEAN PEOPLE HOUSES,BUSINESSES AND PROPERTIES FROM BAD LUCK.
    *DO YOU NEED EXCESSIVE SEXUAL POWER AND STRONG ERECTIONS.
    You can get in touch with him through ( favorspiritualspellcasttemple@gmail.com)

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  145. My Name is Mrs thirteenths .I will love to share my testimony to all the people in the forum cos i never thought i will have my girlfriend back and she means so much to me..The girl i want to get marry to left me 4 weeks to our weeding for another man..,When i called her she never picked my calls,She deleted me on her Facebook and she changed her Facebook status from married to Single…when i went to her place of work she told her boss she never want to see me..i lost my job as a result of this cos i cant get myself anymore,my life was upside down and everything did not go smooth with my life…I tried all i could do to have her back to all did not work out until i met a Man when i Travel to Africa to execute some business have been developing some years back..I told him my problem and all have passed through in getting her back and how i lost my job…he told me he gonna help me…i don’t believe that in the first place.but he swore he will help me out and he told me the reason why my girlfriend left me and also told me some hidden secrets.i was amazed when i heard that from him..he said he will cast a spell for me and i will see the results in the next couple of days..then i travel back to US the following day and i called him when i got home and he said he’s busy casting those spells and he has bought all the materials needed for the spells,he said am gonna see positive results in the next 2 days that is Thursday…My girlfriend called me at exactly 12:35pm on Thursday and apologies for all she had done ..she said,she never knew what she’s doing and her sudden behavior was not intentional and she promised not to do that again.it was like am dreaming when i heard that from her and when we ended the call,i called the man and told him my wife called and he said i haven’t seen anything yet… he said i will also get my job back in 2 days time..and when its Sunday,they called me at my place of work that i should resume working on Monday and they gonna compensate me for the time limit have spent at home without working..My life is back into shape,i have my girlfriend back and we are happily married now with kids and i have my job back too,This man is really powerful..if we have up to 20 people like him in the world,the world would have been a better place..he has also helped many of my friends to solve many problems and they are all happy now..Am posting this to the forum for anybody that is interested in meeting the man for help.you can mail him on this e-mail; lalapumena@gmail.com , i cant give out his number cos he told me he don’t want to be disturbed by many people across the world..he said his email is okay and he’ will replied to any emails asap..hope he helped u out too..good luck his email;lalapumena@gmail.com

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  146. I am so so very happy today for my lost hope is back to me with the help of Dr Ekpiku,my ex left me for good 2 years,i have tried all possible best to bring him back but all effort seems to be wasted,I love him so very much that I can not even think of a life without him for a minute,I came across a child hood friend whom I explained my situation to her then referred me to The great Dr Ekpiku who helped her a long time ago to get her ex back to her,I quickly ask for Dr Ekpiku contact she then gave me his email address (Ekpikuspelltemple@live.com) I contacted the great priest when I got home that same day, Dr Ekpiku told me not to worry that every thing will be fine that he is going to be back in the next three days after he is finish with the spell and unknown to me exactly withing the next three days he came looking for me,I am so very happy today that I have him fully back in my life,right now I own all thanks to Dr Ekpiku for the good work he had done for me and in case you need this kind of help email him on(Ekpikuspelltemple@live.com) because he is the only solution to your problems.

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  147. Oh my God, I'm so glad to tell everyone the real thing that happen to me...My name is JOAN. If i refuse to share this testimony it means i am selfish to my self and to people i love so much whom might have similar problems, March 16th about something 7:23pm after taken our dinner my husband got crazy started calling a lady name Melisa I love you, i was so mad and started crying like a baby...then my husband left home then for the idiot called Melisa, and never return back home then i believed when he understand his self he will surly come back to apology, but instead he left me So i complained to my friend she told me she was having such problems in her marriage until she was introduce to DR agbadi who specializes in bringing back broken homes and broken marriages DR agbadi cast a spell for me in May 4th surprisingly my husband came home May 6th apologizing that i should forgive him that it will never happen again, i was so glad and gave the thanks to DR agbadi who save my marriage, if you are having similar problem you can contact him and His email address is (dragbadilaguspelltemple@gmail.com) you can still save your marriage if u really love your husband.
    Thanks joan

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  148. Hello everybody on this page,i want to thank God for using dr. Kasee as my source of savior after 9 years of my marriage and my lover left me alone for 6 months,Have just been heart broken until i go in contact with dr. Kasee after i saw a ladies testimony on how she was helped by this same dr. Kasee,So i decided to get in contact with him and when i told him all my problems he laughed and said this is not a problem that everything will be ok in 2 days time.Exactly the 2nd day my husband called me i was shocked and what surprise me the most was that his behaviour was normal as the man i got married to.Am so grateful to dr Kasee for what he did for me in helping me to get my husband back, if you wish to contacting him Email: ONIMALOVESPELL@YAHOO.COM

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  149. I'm sharing this testimony because someone out there might have same problem,Am very happy today because i was having a sleepless night since the only man i have ever love in my life left me for another girl,trying to get him back i met this testimony of a Woman called Sandra and she said somebody called Dr abacha helped her to bring back her lover. i took a leaps of faith and contacted Dr abacha and he also brought back the only man i have ever love to me.I'm so happy sharing this testimony,contact Dr abacha in his email: abachasolutiontemple367@gmail.com and believe me his going to make you happy once again okay

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  150. I am so happy to let the whole world know how this powerful spell caster saved my marriage. Everything was going down the drain as my husband can not stop cheating on me with other women.He became used to always heating on me. I tried to make him stop, but I couldn’t help the situation, the more I tried, the harder it becomes. At times we will fight and go apart for some months and we will come back again just because of our kids. One day a friend told me about this spell caster who helped her too, his name is Dr abacha solution temple. she said he uses white magic spells to solve spiritual problems. I decided to give it a try, I contacted him and he told me it will take just 2 to 3 days and I will see great changes in my husband. He actually cast a spell, believe me after 2 to 3 days of the spell, my husband was confessing different names of woman he has slept with. He begged for forgiveness and never to try it again. From that day till now, my mind is at rest. My husband dislike every other women on earth except me. And am so happy to have him for myself alone. The spell caster’s contact is abachasolutiontemple@gmail.com or call him with his number +2348132571730. You can contact him for any help, he is very powerful and can solve any kind of problem below.
    Do you want your ex lover back?
    Do you want to get pregnant?
    Do you want your husband to appreciate you?
    Do you want to be famous or rich?
    Do you want to be a celebrity?
    Do you your business to grow excessively?
    Do you want to be honorably good academically?
    Do you need a job?
    Do you need a husband?
    Do you have problem in your marriage life?
    Contact abacha today for speed help:abachasolutiontemple367@gmail.com

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  151. I am Neil Daubbermann and am a North Carolinian. I have already made up my mind to die and set aside December 16 to commit suicide if my beloved wife didn't come back to me for she just left me after a slight misunderstanding and quarrel over some issues and for my situation to be worse, i lost my job but luckily for me, i saw a woman who was advertising LORD ESIENDO that he was lord of spell casts and that if anyone had problems or challenges, that they should reach this great spell lord at HOODOOSPELLCASTS@OUTLOOK.COM and i willingly gave a try to it and i poured to him {LORD ESIENDO} my mind and that i will die if she didn't come back to me and LO, he assured me that he will help me cast a love spell that will bring her back to me and that i will be call back at work but before he could do that that i need to erase my mind of dieing and he adviced me like though he was my dad and i heed to him and did that which he requested of me and a day to December 16th, my wife came to the house and we settled and forgave each other and till now, we are living happily and also my boss called me to resume my office on the 16th, the day i wished to leave this world. But what more can i say now and how much enough can i thank LORD ESIENDO who helped me out of my problems but i say Thank You LORD ESIENDO.
    And to as many in problems, be it love/marital problems, Financial problems, health problems, problems with occupation or whatever, never fail to reach LORD ESIENDO on HOODOOSPELLCASTS@OUTLOOK.COM for he can help you out of that problem and not only help you but also will advice you for a better life.
    And my prayer today is may nobody have problem at all but also if you feel you are going astray or you kinda need someone to advice you, don't also fail to reach him because he is more than a helper.

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  152. Hello everybody, my names is Cindy Davis Am from Canada i want to give thanks and honor to Dr.ATILA for the great work he did for me, he brought my lover within 24 hours which i never taught it will ever come through in my life, but this great man Dr. ATILA proved to me that powers can do wonders, i got his contact from a friend in the USA who he helped, this friend of mine told me that this man is great but i felt as hmm are you sure? cause i hardly believe those kind of things,so she told me not to worry that when i contact him,atilahealinghome@yahoo.com that he is guaranteeing me 100% that my lover will come back that if it does not work that she will be the one to give me back my money, to show her sincerity to me, she gave me her car that if it does not work that and she did not pay me the money that i spent that she i should collect her car and she gave me all the documents, i was so so surprised she was very serious about it so that was how i contacted him and i told him what i want he just told me that everything will be done within 24 hours so with the assurance my friend gave me i was having confident, so in the next 24 hours that he told me i just heard a knock on my door i never knew it was mark, so that was how i opened the door the first thing he did was to go on his knees, he started begging me to forgive him that he is very sorry for everything, i was really surprised and was also happy, so that was how i forgive him and now we are living together happily than ever before, and am using the media to invite my friends on my wedding which will coming up on 30/10/2013, am very happy thanks be to Lucy who gave me his contact and honor be onto Great DR. ATILA who helped a lot, if you need his help or you want to thank him for me you can contact him through atilahealinghome@yahoo.com or cell number +2348169457829

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  153. What would i have done if not for kasee spell,my name is stella, I am 27 years old and i have a son. Unfortunately almost a year ago his father broke up with me because of a mistake I made and I just really want him back. He is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I want our family to be complete again, I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I read online that you helped a girl in this situation and I contact him for help. I grew up with my parents divorced and I don’t want that for my son and I miss my husband so much and just want our family to be whole again I want the love of my life back and I can honestly say that because he is the only man I have ever truly loved with all my heart.So i seek help from onimalovespell@gmail.com and he responded to me and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting back my husband and i am happy and greatful to him for helping me. onimalovespell@gmail.com the only through spell caster i have ever known.

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  154. A great miracle has to me well my name is SMITH DORA AM FROM Ottawa, Canada
    i want you all to help me in thanking DR.SHAKADEdrshakadepowerfullovespell@gmail.com) who help me with my problems. My husband and i have been married for five years now, we live happily as good couples until a friend of mine cast a spell on my husband. he abandoned me and the family, he didn’t even want to see me at all because he was under a spell. it was now getting to seven months since my husband abandoned me and i was frustrated and don’t know what to do until i meet this great spell caster on line, I tell him my problems and he give me just three days assurance that he will come back to me. He help me break the spell that was cast on my husband and to my greatest surprise the third day my husband came knocking on my door and beg me for forgiveness. once again thank you DR SHAKADE you can also contact him through his mail (drshakadepowerfullovespell@gmail.com.)

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  155. THE GREAT DR OGIDIGBI WHO BROUGHT MY HUSBAND BACK TO ME .
    My name is mary snoop I live in USA, . My husband and I have been living a very happy and lovely life. So as time went on, I began to notice this strange attitude that he was possessing. He was now having another girl friend called jane, to the extent that he was no longer picking up my calls, and he was not even sleeping in my house anymore because of this new girl friend. I became confused and didn't know what to do . So i became worried and stranded, , because I have never experienced a thing like this before in my life. So I decided to visit a spell caster online, to see if he can help me out. So immediately I went to the internet, where I saw an amazing testimony of a spell caster who brought someone's ex lover back,DR OGIDIGBI so I email him with his email ogidigbioracletemple@gmail.com immediately and I explained to him all my problems and immediately he reply to me that it will be very easy for him to solve, i have been helping people a situation like the one i have. And he also gave me some proof to be really sure of his work, and he assured me that my husband will come back to me immediately he is through with the spell casting. And also he told me to put all my trust in him, and I really believe him. So it was 9:00 am on the next morning, when I was about going to work, when i received my husband's call, and he told me that he was coming back home , and he apologized to me, and told me that he is very sorry for the pain that he has cost me. And after some minutes later, he really came back home, and that was how we continued our marriage with lots of love and happiness again, and our love was now stronger than how it were before. And he also told me that once my heart desire has been granted unto me that i should go and testify of his work right here on the internet. Right now I am the happiest woman on earth today as I am writing this testimony, and I want to really thank " Dr OGIDIGBI " for bringing back my husband, and for bringing joy and love to my life. My advice for you out there who your husband or your wife is acting strange or behaving the same way like this, or you have any problem with your relationship or anything related to do with spell casting, is for you to go and visit this VIA email: ogidigbioracletemple@gmail.com, and i assure you that he will be of help to you, and I am 90% sure that he will solve it out.
    Thank Dr ogidigbi




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  156. My name is Nicolas from Florida. This would be my second time here. Just to say another thank you to DR.LOVESPELL for all he has done for me. Unlike other spell casters in Africa and Asia who are not true. He got my ex back just after all hopes was lost, he got me a job and with rapid promotion in a company that hardly promotes people. Here is the link, i was one of them http://www.hardwaremerchandising.com/news/walmart-promotes-25-000-employees-at-store-ceremonies/1002692320/?&er=NA now we are getting married in two weeks time. You are all invited. Special thanks to DR.LOVESPELL. To my greatest surprise, it was almost free. I am so happy i can be this happy again in my life. You can contact him directly via e-mail on lovespellpower@hotmail.com or mobile.+37067060228. Here
    is one simple way to differentiate between the fake and the real spell casters. You can Google his name and all you would see about him are wonderful testimonies of how he helped people. As for the fake ones, you would see some stories of how the swindled some people. Their list is all over the internet. DR.LOVESPELL is exemption from that list.

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  157. friends.My name is Dennis i based in Chicago.I never believed in all spell-casting.I Have been scammed by 5different people.I lost hope in them.My ex left me.I was devastated.I lost my job.My best friend saw my plight.Then he introduced me to dr favor.I Was told his work is free.I Never believed until i got in touch with him.He did a spell for me.My ex came back in less than 72hrs.I was recalled at my place of work.I Was even promoted immediately.I couldn't believe there is a real prophet out there who does free spells.I only paid in appreciation after the spell had worked.He doesn't charge anybody until the spell has worked.You shouldn't be deceived by all these scammers that are here for money.dr favor doesn't charge.You can only choose to pay after the spell has worked.Try him and see what i am saying.These are the few things he does
    *HE BRING BACK LOST LOVERS IN 24hrs.
    *REMOTE CONTROL OVER LOVERS.
    *ALL TYPES OF SPELL CASTING & VOODOO WORKER.
    * IS YOUR HEALER TAKING LONG TO SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS? THIS IS YOUR CHANCE TO BE HELPED QUICKLY.
    *GET RIDE OF ANY WITCHCRAFT, BAD LUCK & CURSES.
    * EXPERT IN DISTANCE HEALING
    *COURT CASES EVEN IF ONE IS CONVICTED[IF THERE'S A CHANCE OF APPEALING]
    *IS SOME BODY JEALOUS WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
    *UNFINISHED JOBS BY OTHER DOCTORS-IF NOT SATISFIED-COME TO ME.
    *ARE YOU BEING FORCED INTO A DIVORCE?
    *HE PREVENT BAD LUCK AND JEALOUSY.
    *TO WIN HORSES AND GAMBLING.



    *HE CAN STOP SOME ONE INTERFERING WITH YOUR RELATIONSHIP.
    * DO YOU WANT TO HAVE CHILDREN OF YOUR CHOICE
    *DO YOU WANT QUICK MARRIAGE PROPOSAL?
    *HE CAN CLEAN PEOPLE HOUSES,BUSINESSES AND PROPERTIES FROM BAD LUCK.
    *DO YOU NEED EXCESSIVE SEXUAL POWER AND STRONG ERECTIONS.
    You can get in touch with him through ( favorspiritualspellcasttemple@gmail.com)

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  158. BE CAREFUL HERE NOBODY CAN HELP YOU HERE OR EVEN SUGGEST HOW YOU CAN GET YOUR EX OR LOVE BACK,ANY TESTIMONIES OF MOST SPELL CASTER HERE MUST BE IGNORE.BECAUSE MOST OF THEM ARE SCAM I MEAN REAL SCAM WHICH I WAS A VICTIM AND I GOT RIPPED OF THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS BECAUSE I WAS SO ANXIOUS TO GET MY WIFE ROSE AFTER SHE LEFT ME FOR OVER 2YEARS WITH MY 7YEARS OLD SON JERRY,I HAVE APPLIED TO 7 DIFFERENT SPELL CASTER HERE AND ALL TO NO AVAIL THEY ALL ASK FOR SAME THING SEND YOUR NAME YOUR EX NAME ADDRESS AND PICTURE PHONE NUMBER ETC WHICH I DID OVER AND OVER AGAIN AND MOST OF THEM WERE FROM SOUTH AFRICA UNTIL I SAW THIS Email Online ABOUT DR KAKA SPELL IN NIGERIA AND I DECIDED TO GAVE HIM A CALL.HE ASK ME FOUR THINGS MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND £500 AND SAID MY EX WILL COME BACK IN 24HOURS SO I HAVE TO END THE CALL AS I HAVE PAID OVER $7000 ON SPELL CASTING AND COURIER AND NOTHING HAVE WORK FOR ME AFTER 3 DAYS I WAS THINKING ABOUT HOW MUCH I HAVE LOST SO FAR BECAUSE OF ROSE SO I SAID LET ME GIVE HIM A TRY SO I CALLED HIM AGAIN AND SEND MY REAL NAME,MY EX AND MY EX MOTHER NAME AND THE £340 BECAUSE I SWEAR IT WAS MY LAST TRY SO I WAS WAITING AS HE TOLD ME TO WAIT TILL NEXT DAY AND I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT BECAUSE I REALLY LOVE ROSE AND WANT HER BACK AT 9PM THAT DAY I SAW ROSE ONLINE ON FACE BOOK AND SHE SAID HI AT FIRST I WAS SHOCK BECAUSE SHE NEVER TALK WITH ME FOR THE PAST A YEAR AND 9 MONTH NOW I DID NOT REPLY AGAIN SHE SAID ARE YOU THERE? I QUICKLY REPLY YES AND SHE SAID CAN WE SEE TOMORROW I SAID YES AND SHE WENT OFFLINE I WAS CONFUSED I TRY TO CHAT WITH HER AGAIN BUT SHE WAS NO MORE ONLINE I COULD NOT SLEEP THAT NIGHT AS I WAS WONDERING WHAT SHE IS GOING TO SAY, BY 7.AM THE NEXT MORNING SHE GAVE ME A MISS CALL I DECIDED NOT TO CALL BACK AS I WAS STILL ON SHOCK AGAIN SHE CALL AND I PICK SHE SAID CAN WE SEE AFTER WORK TODAY I SAID YES SO SHE END THE CALL IMMEDIATELY I GOT OFF WORK SHE CALL ME AND WE MEET AND NOW WE ARE BACK AGAIN I CALL DR KAKA THE NEXT DAY THANKING HIM FOR WHAT HE HAS DONE IN FACT I STILL CALL HIM AND THANK HIM AS MY LIFE WAS NOT COMPLETE WITHOUT ROSE PLEASE BE CAREFUL HERE I HAVE BEEN SCAM THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS IF YOU WANT A LOVE SPELL THE CALL DR KAKA NOW +2347061208098 OR EMAIL HIM (KAKARAKASPELL@YAHOO.COM) Sincerely,.
    {kakarakaspell@yahoo.com}

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  159. I had a reading with Dr. Abu on net because I was having problems with my marriage. Initially, I was nervous and didn’t know what to expect from him. Immediately, Dr. Abu told me that the reason I was having problems in my marriage is because my husband was cheating with another woman. I suspected for months that my husband had been cheating but I couldn’t pinpoint for sure. I have decided to allow Dr. Abu to do some spellwork for me and it turned out to be the result I was expecting, my husband is now back to me and he promise he will never hurt me again. If you need Dr. Abu help just contact him on his email via: Ominighospelltemple@gmail.com

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  160. Hello Everyone, who still care about his/her ex-lover/husband or wife. I am from London I never though my husband will come back to me again, I am very happy at last that my husband came back to me after i was acquise of been barren of not been able to bring front children,Then i came across Dr Trust who help me in bring back my husband to his sense with a spell and now i have a baby girl to show to the world that i am fruitful. i am grateful and happier than never before, Thank You Doctor for helping me, email Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com, if you still love or want your ex-lover and happy marriage with children.

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  161. I contacted Dr Ijebu regarding my ex girlfriend. who was no longer wanted to love me anymore, after begging and pleading with her I realized it was because of another boy, she really was leaving me. My co-worker went threw a similar situation and told me that Dr Ijebu had helped her. I cant thank her enough, I'm grateful to her for introducing Dr ijebu to me. After discussing the resolution with him, his spell has done more than what I expected. My ex girlfriend not only came back to me, but she had also totally left that boy for me and now were engaged, we are getting married soon, I don't know what I would have done without Dr ijebu, I believed he is my guarding angel. DR IJEBU want to thank you & your gods for all that you've done for me all these years.I'm thankful for all the time & effort you & your gods have put into my PROBLEM. I am very happy for always been sincere and honest to me, His email is ancientijebudespelltemple@gmail.com

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  162. I contacted Dr Ijebu regarding my ex girlfriend. who was no longer wanted to love me anymore, after begging and pleading with her I realized it was because of another boy, she really was leaving me. My co-worker went threw a similar situation and told me that Dr Ijebu had helped her. I cant thank her enough, I'm grateful to her for introducing Dr ijebu to me. After discussing the resolution with him, his spell has done more than what I expected. My ex girlfriend not only came back to me, but she had also totally left that boy for me and now were engaged, we are getting married soon, I don't know what I would have done without Dr ijebu, I believed he is my guarding angel. DR IJEBU want to thank you & your gods for all that you've done for me all these years.I'm thankful for all the time & effort you & your gods have put into my PROBLEM. I am very happy for always been sincere and honest to me, His email is ancientijebudespelltemple@gmail.com

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  163. I never believed in Spells or Magics until I meant this special spell caster called DR OKORO.The woman i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down.she was with me for 9 years and i really love her so much..she left me for another man with no reasons..when i called her she never picked up my calls and she don't want to see me around her...so,when i told the man what happened.he helped me to do some readings,and after the readings he made me to realize that the other man has done some spells over my wife and that is the reason why she left me..he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring her back.At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try...In 3 days,she called me herself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe, she can ever come back to me again but now i am happy she's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family..Am posting this to this forum if anyone needs the Dr Okoro help.Can contact him through this email: (Drokorotemple@gmail.com)

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  164. “I have met matins five (5) months ago and I felt since the very first moment this
    is the love of my life. The first month he was indifferent to the situation even I
    felt he was behind all women except me. I asked myself: Does he know that I exist?
    I was feeling terrible about this because deep in my mind I knew he was the right
    person for me. My friend, Julia told me: There is this africa aduga he can help
    me. I was skeptical at the beginning to be honest because I never believe in these
    types of things. I decided to contact aduga and he was very sweet, and he knew also
    that matins was meant to be my soul mate. he sent me a Love Spell that worked in
    3days he invited me to dinner, then to the disco, then to the theater…..now he is
    just mine!! Thank you so much!!! this is the email of the spell caster
    adugasolutiontemple@hotmail.com

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  165. Dr egbenakhue am so grateful, through the powerful money spell i purchased from you
    last week i was able to apply for a loan from the bank for both to start my own
    business and also to buy my family a house, i cant imagine yesterday i received a
    call from the bank notifying me that my loan on R4.2million was approved, i don't
    know how to thank you but your powers are beyond human imagination,if you need his
    assistance contact him via egbenakhuespelltemple@gmail.com

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  166. I am Frank Silver by name. Greetings to every one that is reading this testimony. I have been rejected by my wife after three(3) years of marriage, my wife left me with two kids . I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide, i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called High Priest Ekpiku which i met online. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across allot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a woman called Sonia,she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 7 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped High Priest Ekpiku ‘s e-mail address. After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 3 days, my husband came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. High Priest Ekpiku is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man… If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try High Priest Ekpiku anytime, he might be the answer to your problems. Here’s his contact:{Ekpikuspelltemple@live.com.

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  167. I never believed in Spells or Magics until I meant this special spell caster called DR OKORO.The woman i wanted to marry left me 2 months to our weeding ceremony and my life was upside down.she was with me for 9 years and i really love her so much..she left me for another man with no reasons..when i called her she never picked up my calls and she don't want to see me around her...so,when i told the man what happened.he helped me to do some readings,and after the readings he made me to realize that the other man has done some spells over my wife and that is the reason why she left me..he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring her back.At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try...In 3 days,she called me herself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe, she can ever come back to me again but now i am happy she's back and we are married now and we live as a happy family..Am posting this to this forum if anyone needs the Dr Okoro help.Can contact him through this email: (Drokorotemple@gmail.com)

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  168. Had a huge bust up with my partner Gerry, phoned Dr. Abu in tears, she said she could help, I must admit, I was very, very skeptical as didn't really believe he would be back after all he said, but it was just a few days when he phoned and asked to come over to talk, we talked and talked and the silly misunderstanding was all forgiven and we are back together now for good, all thanks to Dr. Abu. , I would highly recommend his services, they do really, really work. Ominighospelltemple@gmail.com

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  169. VANILLA | Oct 9, 2013
    I am VANILLA from the united state, I want
    to say this explicitly for its of a surprise that
    regardless of the internet fraud, i could still
    meet some one this genuine, am not here to
    talk on relationship, so don’t be in the offing
    to hear that, but its something
    supplementary, for i cheeked for a
    endorsement in my office for the past one
    year, but my boss asked me to lay with him,
    or no promotion, when i met Dr BLACK he
    cast a spell for me and ask me to go to work
    and see what will happen, i went to work
    and saw my letter of endorsement waiting
    for me on my desk, just like that, i was so
    amazed, but i owe him the thanks…go to
    him for he will be of assistance, and please
    try to give him the chance he needs, for a
    chance might change your whole life…
    (okunspelltemple@gmail.com )
    predicament email him immediately without
    doubts •Thanks
    Report this post

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  170. My name is ana i
    was in a relationship for 3yrs with a boy i believed
    loved me more than anything in thing in the world
    after a while i noticed some changes in the things
    that he does, he started nagging
    about them so i knew some thing was wrong i tried
    to please him in several was but yet no
    outcome. shortly i noticed he was seeing another girl
    i tried to make him understand that i loved him so
    much but he wouldn't even listen. one day i read a
    testimony on a similar case a person testifying of
    the work of this great Dr okojie and even when i did not
    believe i was convinced by my friend so i contacted
    him and tried his method reluctantly surprisingly in
    less than one week my lover contacted me and till
    date we are still together happily married with a baby boy. Am so grateful to Dr okojie he is specialiesed in solving of other problems including the following:
    (1) If you want your ex back.
    (2) if you always have bad dreams.
    (3) You want to be promoted in your office.
    (4) You want women/men to run after you.
    (5) If you want a child.
    (6) If you need financial assistance.
    (7) If you want the cure of HIV AIDS
    contact him now for immediate solution of your
    problems on Drokojiehealinghome@gmail.com
    Thank you

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  171. This is a testimony that I will tell to every one to hear. I have been married for 4years and on the fifth year of my marriage, another woman had a spell to take my lover away from me and my husband left me and the kids and we have suffered for 2years until I met a post where this man DR olokipa have helped someone and I decided to give him a try to help me bring my lover back home and believe me I just send my picture to him and that of my husband and after 48hours as he have told me, I saw a car drove into the house and behold it was my husband and he have come to me and the kids and that is why I am happy to make every one of you in similar to met with this man and have your lover back to your self. His email: drolikipaspellhome@gmail.com

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  172. I would just like to say that Dr. Lee really does do miracles, my soulmate came to quicker than I thought he would. I would recommend her to any-one who needs help, and I will use Dr. Lee again for further work in the future. You can as well go to him if you need help. Contact him on his email address: Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com.

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  173. I have been in bondage ever since my ex leave for another woman, It was really hell for me and everybody told me to forget about him but i could not because i love him so much, Things get worse until my friend introduced me to this great spell caster Dr. Kalo who have save so many life and relationships and i contacted him through his email (Choosenlovespell@gmail.com) i explain everything to him and he cast a spell for me immediately after three days, everything turn around and my boyfriend come to me on his knee begging for forgiveness that i am the one and only woman in his life now. i was surprise i have never seen such a miracle in my life. I am so thankful to this man and i will forever publish his name Dr Kalo

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  174. Hello
    My name is Mrs Angelica Londos from united states Daly city ca, i am married with two kids. Life has been a misery for me and my kids for over six years when my husband dumped me for his new mistress due to some minor misunderstanding that we had.
    So he engage in a fight with me and throw me out of the house, so all through these sorrowful period of my life, i have been in pain. So one day, as i was browsing through the internet, i came across many post about spell casters testifying how they were helped by them so i decided to seek help and advice. but naturally i didn't believe in spells or magic powers but due to the fact that i was deeply in love with my husband, i decided to go for a try, So i came in contact with Dr. Aire of drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com but before i contact Dr. Aire, i was scammed by alot of spell casters who makes me believe that they can help me. So because of all these, i almost lost hope that i can't get my husband back anymore so when i contacted this Dr. Aire, he assure me that he will help me to reunite my marriage, so without demanding any single cent from me, he did a spell for me and he advice me to wait for just 24 hours. I actually waited as he said, so when it was 24 hours after he did the spell, my husband actually called me on my mobile phone and started apologizing for everything that he had caused me and the kids. This was how my marriage was reunited again and Starting from this point till date, i and my husband has been living peacefully and happily. Anybody viewing this testimony should please stop by and read and if you are so interested in contacting Dr. Aire for any help, simply do that via his email id (drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com) and remain happy.
    Thanks.

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  175. I am posting on this site on how a great Dr.help me bring back my ex husbandr after 9 months of divorce with two kids. I love him so much,so a friend of mine clara introduced this Dr to me who also help her. he did a spell to bring him back within 24 hours, now we are together no more fight and argument. my lover now loves me more than any thing in the wolrd Thank for helping me bring back my husband to me. If you need any help like
    1 LOVE SPELL
    2 WIN EX BACK
    3 FRUIT OF THE WOMB
    4 PROMOTION SPELL
    5 PROTECTION SPELL
    6 BUSINESS SPELL
    7 GOOD JOB SPELL
    8 LOTTERY SPELL
    9 COURT CASE SPELL
    contact him via email: (Ultimatespellcast@gmail.com) call +2348156885231 for help.

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  176. Hello
    My name is Mrs Angelica Londos from united states Daly city ca, i am married with two kids. Life has been a misery for me and my kids for over six years when my husband dumped me for his new mistress due to some minor misunderstanding that we had.
    So he engage in a fight with me and throw me out of the house, so all through these sorrowful period of my life, i have been in pain. So one day, as i was browsing through the internet, i came across many post about spell casters testifying how they were helped by them so i decided to seek help and advice. but naturally i didn't believe in spells or magic powers but due to the fact that i was deeply in love with my husband, i decided to go for a try, So i came in contact with Dr. Aire of drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com but before i contact Dr. Aire, i was scammed by alot of spell casters who makes me believe that they can help me. So because of all these, i almost lost hope that i can't get my husband back anymore so when i contacted this Dr. Aire, he assure me that he will help me to reunite my marriage, so without demanding any single cent from me, he did a spell for me and he advice me to wait for just 24 hours. I actually waited as he said, so when it was 24 hours after he did the spell, my husband actually called me on my mobile phone and started apologizing for everything that he had caused me and the kids. This was how my marriage was reunited again and Starting from this point till date, i and my husband has been living peacefully and happily. Anybody viewing this testimony should please stop by and read and if you are so interested in contacting Dr. Aire for any help, simply do that via his email id (drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com) and remain happy.
    Thanks.

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  177. My name is Roland monica from Houston,taxes.i never believed in love spells or magic until i met this spell caster once. when i went to Africa in June 28th 2013 this year on a business summit. i ment a man called DR omoba. He is powerful he could help you cast a spells to bring back my love’s gone,misbehaving lover looking for some one to love you, bring back lost money and magic money spell or spell for a good job.i’m now happy & a living testimony cos the man i had wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside down cos our relationship has been on for 2 years… i really loved him, but his mother was against me and he had no good paying job. so when i met this spell caster, i told him what happened and explained the situation of things to him..at first i was undecided,skeptical and doubtful, but i just gave it a try. and in 6 days when i returned to taxes, my boyfriend (is now my husband ) he called me by himself and came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job interview so we should get married..i didn’t believe it cos the spell caster only asked for my name and my boyfriends name and all i wanted him to do… well we are happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,and my husband also got a new job and our lives became much better. in case anyone needs the spell caster for some help, email address: dromobaspellhome@gmail.com

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  178. HOW DR OYAKHILOMEN HELPED ME GET MY EX BACK

    I AM AMANDA MORELLI my husband dumped me 9(nine) months ago after I accused him of seeing another girl. I wanted him back in my life but he refused to have any contact with me. He changed his mobile number, blocked me from sending him mails and even on facebook. I was so confused and lost concentration that made me lose my job, it was disastrous. I kept seeing on several blogs how a spell caster keeps helping people get their ex back and I contacted this spell caster called Dr OYAKHILOMEN for help, he assured me in 48hours that my ex will return to me,and to my greatest surprise my ex called me for the first time since we broke up. I am so happy that my love is back again, we are now happier than ever and I have gotten a job far better than my previous one, once again thank you Dr OYAKHILOMEN, you are truly gifted and powerful. Email this wonderful man on oyakhilomenspiritualhome@gmail.com. He is the only answer to your problems. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing his name for the good work he did for me .again his email address is oyakhilomenspiritualhome@gmail.com or call +2348079295875

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  179. I was crushed when my lover of three years left to be with another woman. I cried and sobbed every day,until it got so bad that I reached out to the Internet for help. And i saw a testimony of a spell caster (drstanleyspelltemple@hotmail.com) who help a girl to get her boyfriend back with a love spell and i said let me give it a try so i contact him for help and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting my love back and now i am a happy woman. For what you have done for me, i will not stop to share your goodness to people out there for the good work you are doing. I hope God bless you as much as you have help me to get my Love back.......Whitney

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  180. I was crushed when my lover of three years left to be with another woman. I
    cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I reached out to the
    Internet for help.And i saw a testimony of a spell caster who help a girl
    called michelle and i said let me give it a try so i contact him for help
    and he cast a love spell for me which i use in getting my love back and now
    i am a happy woman.For what you have done for me,i will not stop to share
    your goodness to people out there for the good work you are doing.I hope
    God blesses you as much as you have help me to get my Love back,visit him
    on oriomonspiritualtemple@yahoo.com is the only answer to your problemS
    EMILIANO BABARAH_USA

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  181. An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me.. My name is james i live in Australia,and I`m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she did not love me anymore So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{emobeifospellcastertemple@gmail.com }. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who did not call me for the past seven {5}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website {emobeifospellcastertemple@gmail.com},if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back. So thanks to the for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.{emobeifospellcastertemple@gmail.com}
    Thanks...

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  182. Hello
    My name is Mrs Angelica Londos from united states Daly city ca, i am married with two kids. Life has been a misery for me and my kids for over six years when my husband dumped me for his new mistress due to some minor misunderstanding that we had.
    So he engage in a fight with me and throw me out of the house, so all through these sorrowful period of my life, i have been in pain. So one day, as i was browsing through the internet, i came across many post about spell casters testifying how they were helped by them so i decided to seek help and advice. but naturally i didn't believe in spells or magic powers but due to the fact that i was deeply in love with my husband, i decided to go for a try, So i came in contact with Dr. Aire of drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com but before i contact Dr. Aire, i was scammed by alot of spell casters who makes me believe that they can help me. So because of all these, i almost lost hope that i can't get my husband back anymore so when i contacted this Dr. Aire, he assure me that he will help me to reunite my marriage, so without demanding any single cent from me, he did a spell for me and he advice me to wait for just 24 hours. I actually waited as he said, so when it was 24 hours after he did the spell, my husband actually called me on my mobile phone and started apologizing for everything that he had caused me and the kids. This was how my marriage was reunited again and Starting from this point till date, i and my husband has been living peacefully and happily. Anybody viewing this testimony should please stop by and read and if you are so interested in contacting Dr. Aire for any help, simply do that via his email id (drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com) and remain happy. You can visit his website on www.draire.simplesite.com or www.drairesolutioncenter.simplesite.com
    Thanks.

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  183. A couple of weeks ago I was in a dark period in my life, the man I love to bits had gone off with someone else, that was when I was told about this Dr. Lee. Well he told me he could see that we would get back together that gave me hope, and he was right, because this week we have moved in with each other and are so happy. A big thank you to Dr. Lee. If you are in need of an angel please get in touch with my Dr. Lee via: Ancientfathersandmothers@gmail.com

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  184. Hello
    My name is Mrs Angelica Londos from united states Daly city ca, i am married with two kids. Life has been a misery for me and my kids for over six years when my husband dumped me for his new mistress due to some minor misunderstanding that we had.
    So he engage in a fight with me and throw me out of the house, so all through these sorrowful period of my life, i have been in pain. So one day, as i was browsing through the internet, i came across many post about spell casters testifying how they were helped by them so i decided to seek help and advice. but naturally i didn't believe in spells or magic powers but due to the fact that i was deeply in love with my husband, i decided to go for a try, So i came in contact with Dr. Aire of drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com but before i contact Dr. Aire, i was scammed by alot of spell casters who makes me believe that they can help me. So because of all these, i almost lost hope that i can't get my husband back anymore so when i contacted this Dr. Aire, he assure me that he will help me to reunite my marriage, so without demanding any single cent from me, he did a spell for me and he advice me to wait for just 24 hours. I actually waited as he said, so when it was 24 hours after he did the spell, my husband actually called me on my mobile phone and started apologizing for everything that he had caused me and the kids. This was how my marriage was reunited again and Starting from this point till date, i and my husband has been living peacefully and happily. Anybody viewing this testimony should please stop by and read and if you are so interested in contacting Dr. Aire for any help, simply do that via his email id (drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com) and remain happy. You can visit his website on www.draire.simplesite.com or www.drairesolutioncenter.simplesite.com
    Thanks.

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  185. Oh my God, I'm so glad to tell everyone the real thing that happen to me...My name is EMILIANO BABARAH. If i refuse to share this testimony it means i am selfish to my self and to people i love so much whom might have similar problems, March 16th about something 7:23pm after taken our dinner my husband got crazy started calling a lady name Melisa I love you, i was so mad and started crying like a baby...then my husband left home then for the idiot called Melisa, and never return back home then i believed when he understand his self he will surly come back to apology, but instead he left me So i complained to my friend she told me she was having such problems in her marriage until she was introduce to DR ORIOMON who specializes in bringing back broken homes and broken marriages DR ORIOMON cast a spell for me in May 4th surprisingly my husband came home May 6th apologizing that i should forgive him that it will never happen again, i was so glad and gave the thanks to DR ORIOMON who save my marriage, if you are having similar problem you can contact him and His email address is (oriomonspiritualtemple@yahoo.com) you can still save your marriage if u really love your husband.
    Thanks EMILIANO BABARAH_USA

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  186. i am miss Gregory from USA, i navel believe that hiv cure is real on till i got in contact with Dr okosun, my HIV stated eight years ago, i was even waiting for death because all my money went out for drug, which keep me till today, one day i saw in the interment that HIV cure is out i then email Dr okosun, and he prepare the herb for me which i took, after taking it he told me to go to the hospital which i did, could you believe that i was confirm HIV negative after the test, and i went to another hospital and it was also negative. if you have this problem and you want to be free from it please contact this doctor with this email address dr.okosunshrinetemple@gmail.com, he is the best HIV cure you will find in the whole world. thank you Dr okosun am free now.

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  187. DR LOVE BRING BACK MY EX BOYFRIEND
    Happy new year to my friends and family all over the world,Am bring you Good news about my relationship problem solution that Dr Love spell caster Solution help me solve between 48 hours , I heard about amazing spell caster Dr Love, because i have been doing research online and came across a Relationship comment About Dr Love spell caster solution . My name is Elizabeth and I am 30 year old from Ontario Canada, I was with a guy for about a year now, and his name is Paul. Things were getting pretty serious. We both actually fell in love with each other and I actually saw myself being with him in my future and he wanted same with me. We clicked and got along very well and we were so close. But then my 'ex best friends' we just recently stopped talking. They had the nerve to text him and bring up my past to him and told him about every guy i talked too. They think i am fake and don't care about anyone besides myself and Paul. It hurt so much that they did that, and they knew how much i loved Paul. Paul left me and thinks i'm a slut and everything which am not. And i know hes beyond hurt. But i was actually committed to him and i told Dr Love spell caster solution drlovespellcastersolution@gmail.com tel : 2348038096203 how much i want him back and loved him with all my heart. I'm literally crying when i was telling Dr Love spell Caster solution to help me bring him back cause he was like more than a best friend to me and i want to settle down with him. Dr Love told me that he will be back between 48 hours after casting a spell on him then before 24 hours i saw Paul knocking my door, what a miracle way Dr Love spell caster help make my dream come true.
    Thanks so much Dr Love

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  188. Have you ever head of Dr Ekaka the spell caster I almost lost my child and my wife about a year ago we had misunderstanding with each other which leads to the separation of me and my wife and after a month she was engage with another man and they both travel out of the country down to united kingdom and when I was searching for a help online I came across some fake spell caster which scam some money from me and I lose hope on getting her back still a friend of my that has receive a help from ekakaspelltemple@yahoo.com direct me to him and I never believe on the spell caster anymore because of the other fake spell caster that scam my money from me before but due to what my friend told my about the Ekaka spell temple so I just say I should give him a Trier to see if they are all the same so after 24hours of casting the spell I receive a phone from my ex and was apologizing for her mistakes so it was very happy and it was just like a dream to me and now you are together again. Thanks to DR Ekaka.

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  189. My name is thynaya, i have fall in love with a man called johnbul, we have been i love for so many years now, i have not experience heart broken from him he love me more than any other thing on earth, until my boyfriend travel to see his mother, when he comes back he have not been the same that he is, he was change totally but i can't live without him,even if i went to greet him in his house he will send me away, i keep crying every day, i try so many spell caster but know one could help me but just to scam and eat up my money, until i heard of Dr okpodu i said okay let me tried him and see, really i contacted Dr opkodu, can you believe it my ex lover who said that we will never be together again came to my house begging me for forgiveness i have no choice than to forgive him cause i love him so much, please you need to contact this man he can as well help you he is like an angel sent from heaven to said people's life, his email is: dr.okpoduspellhome@gmail.com. try and contact him now thanks.

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  190. An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me.. My name is james i live in Australia,and I`m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she did not love me anymore So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again. So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{emobeifospellcastertemple@gmail.com }. So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day what an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who did not call me for the past seven {5}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster . So, i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website {emobeifospellcastertemple@gmail.com},if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to "bringing your ex back. So thanks to the Emobeifospellcastertemple for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again.{emobeifospellcastertemple@gmail.com}
    Thanks...

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  191. Dear friends, my name is Drake from united states i had a problem with my husband 2years ago, which lead to our break up. when he broke up with me, i was not my self again, i felt so empty inside me. until a friend of mine Walt Pen told me about a spell caster who helped him in the same problem too. i email ayelalashrine the spell caster and i told him my problem and i did what he asked of me, to cut the long story short. before i knew what was happening my husband gave me a call and told me that he was coming back to me in just 2days and was so happy to have him back to me. we have two kids together and we are happy with our selves. thanks to Prophet Osula for saving my relationship and for also saving others own too. continue your good work the great spell caster email address: ayelalashrine@gmail.com

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  192. Hello
    My name is Mrs Angelica Londos from united states Daly city ca, i am married with two kids. Life has been a misery for me and my kids for over six years when my husband dumped me for his new mistress due to some minor misunderstanding that we had.
    So he engage in a fight with me and throw me out of the house, so all through these sorrowful period of my life, i have been in pain. So one day, as i was browsing through the internet, i came across many post about spell casters testifying how they were helped by them so i decided to seek help and advice. but naturally i didn't believe in spells or magic powers but due to the fact that i was deeply in love with my husband, i decided to go for a try, So i came in contact with Dr. Aire of drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com but before i contact Dr. Aire, i was scammed by alot of spell casters who makes me believe that they can help me. So because of all these, i almost lost hope that i can't get my husband back anymore so when i contacted this Dr. Aire, he assure me that he will help me to reunite my marriage, so without demanding any single cent from me, he did a spell for me and he advice me to wait for just 24 hours. I actually waited as he said, so when it was 24 hours after he did the spell, my husband actually called me on my mobile phone and started apologizing for everything that he had caused me and the kids. This was how my marriage was reunited again and Starting from this point till date, i and my husband has been living peacefully and happily. Anybody viewing this testimony should please stop by and read and if you are so interested in contacting Dr. Aire for any help, simply do that via his email id (drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com) and remain happy or you can contact him through his website http//:www.drairesolutioncenter.webs.com
    Thanks.

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  193. Hello
    My name is Mrs Angelica Londos from united states Daly city ca, i am married with two kids. Life has been a misery for me and my kids for over six years when my husband dumped me for his new mistress due to some minor misunderstanding that we had.
    So he engage in a fight with me and throw me out of the house, so all through these sorrowful period of my life, i have been in pain. So one day, as i was browsing through the internet, i came across many post about spell casters testifying how they were helped by them so i decided to seek help and advice. but naturally i didn't believe in spells or magic powers but due to the fact that i was deeply in love with my husband, i decided to go for a try, So i came in contact with Dr. Aire of drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com but before i contact Dr. Aire, i was scammed by alot of spell casters who makes me believe that they can help me. So because of all these, i almost lost hope that i can't get my husband back anymore so when i contacted this Dr. Aire, he assure me that he will help me to reunite my marriage, so without demanding any single cent from me, he did a spell for me and he advice me to wait for just 24 hours. I actually waited as he said, so when it was 24 hours after he did the spell, my husband actually called me on my mobile phone and started apologizing for everything that he had caused me and the kids. This was how my marriage was reunited again and Starting from this point till date, i and my husband has been living peacefully and happily. Anybody viewing this testimony should please stop by and read and if you are so interested in contacting Dr. Aire for any help, simply do that via his email id (drairesolutioncenter@gmail.com) and remain happy or you can contact him through his website http//:www.drairesolutioncenter.webs.com
    Thanks.

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  194. My name is Felicia Roland, from ITALY I never believed in

    love spells or magic until I met this spell caster once

    when I went to Africa in February this year on a business

    summit. I meant a man who’s name is Dr ISAAC he is

    really powerful and could help cast spells to bring back

    one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money spell

    or spell for a good job or luck spell.I’m now happy & a

    living testimony because the man I had wanted to marry

    left me 3 weeks before our wedding and my life was upside

    down because our relationship has been on for 6years. I

    really loved him, but his mother was against us and he had

    no good paying job. So when I met this spell caster, I

    told him what happened and explained the situation of

    things to him. At first I was undecided, skeptical and

    doubtful, but I just gave it a try. And in 7 days when I

    returned to Italy, my boyfriend (now husband) called me by

    himself and came to me apologizing that everything had

    been settled with his mom and family and he got a new job

    interview so we should get married. I didn’t believe it

    because the spell caster only asked for my name and my

    boyfriends name and all I wanted him to do. Well we are

    happily married now and we are expecting our little kid,

    and my husband also got the new job and our lives became

    much better. His email is drisaachelpcenter@gmail.com and
    call him after mailing him on +2347053812124

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