I love getting emails from readers, especially when they include pictures of their houses. One reader, Deanie, started sending me pictures of her house last year while she was redecorating it. Deanie lives in Grapevine, Texas and at one time was an antique dealer. But now, she had a dilemma – unpainted brick walls versus her husband. You see, Deanie’s house had several interior brick walls, including the fireplace wall, which didn’t fit in with her new all white décor. The problem was that Deanie’s husband was partial to the yellowish-orange brick walls and wouldn’t bend on the subject. He absolutely refused to allow Deanie to paint the brick!
If I have heard this story once, I’ve heard it a 1,000 times. Usually the decorating dilemma is dark stained paneling or furniture that husbands refuse to paint light. Why do men just love dark stained wood? It’s the mystery of the ages. My solution to this problem is always the same: look your husband squarely in the eyes and ask him “and where exactly did you get your degree in interior design?” This tactic may not work of course if you husband is like mine who retorts “the same place you got yours,” which is a stab at me because he knows I didn’t graduate college after attending it for four years! Deanie came up with a much better game plan to persuade her husband. She enlisted the help of her daughter, Dana. Dana wrote a faux legal brief, acting as the attorney to her client, the lowly unpainted brick. The gist of the legal argument is summed up in this paragraph:
THE CASE FOR THE “INTERIOR BRICK”
My case is as follows. The aforementioned male house recipient has trusted his wife and devoted partner with countless creative updates and ideas for almost 40 years of their marriage. Although he prides himself in NOT reversing his decisions on most occasions; hopefully I have made a good enough case for him to reconsider his prior position regarding the future of my Client. Questions: Why is he preventing my Client from receiving the FULL benefit of his wife’s talent? Why won’t he succumb his willful determination to keep my Client in its most basic natural state? Why won’t he give her the best 65th birthday present by taking a trip to Home Depot, purchasing a single lifeless brick…paint it creamy white, wrap with a ribbon and give the best gift of all….PERMISSION TO PAINT MY CLIENT????!!! It behooves me to also mention that ALL family, friends and professional interior designers support my Client’s transformation.
Needless to say that when Deanie’s husband received the fake legal brief from his daughter begging him to let Deanie paint the brick, he finally relented. Of course, once the brick was painted he loved it! Isn’t that always the case? Is there anyone out there that has finally gotten their husband to agree to paint the dark stained wood lighter, only to be made to repaint it dark again? Of course not!
Over the course of the past year, I have received periodic updates from Deanie showing me the changes she has made to her house as she transformed it from colorful to all white. She also sent me pictures of her daughter Dana’s house. I also received pictures of Dana’s sister in law Leslie’s house. And I was sent pictures of Leslie’s mom’s house. More pictures came from Leslie’s aunt showing me her daughter’s house and a friend’s house! I had serious problems keeping up with the family tree. But apparently, everyone in this extended family loves antiques. They love decorating and they love shopping for their houses – they even go to Round Top, although some of them live in Tennessee and Louisiana. I thought it would be fun to look at one extended family’s decorating approach.
Deanie’s House: The problem with the brick walls
BEFORE: How Deanie’s house looked when she moved in.
When Deanie moved into her house many, many years ago – it looked like this. The large fireplace wall was clad in brick and was the undesired focal point. Perhaps if the brick was another color, or if it was stone, it would be less bothersome, but this was not the case. For years and years Deanie had to decorate around the brick because her husband refused to allow her to paint it. Apparently he is quite fond of yellow-orange brick, though no one else is! The blue carpet was replaced with terra cotta tiles. The kitchen is located on the other side of the fireplace – and yes, the brick is there too!
After Deanie started redecorating her house in all white – the brick wall bothered her more and more.
In the middle of the redecorating, Deanie had yet to repaint the armoire, but all her upholstered pieces were now slipped in white.
The armoire has since been painted gray.
And finally, after her daughter Dana, sent her husband the fake legal brief – the brick wall was painted.
Behind the shutters is the sunroom, which also had many brick walls. Those were painted too!
And for Christmas this year. The furniture is arranged to make room for the white (of course) flocked tree.
The painted fireplace is so pretty and soft looking now!
Since it has been painted white, the fireplace is an asset and the focal point of the room.
The sunroom was enclosed – it was once a porch. So, of course the walls are made of brick.
Here is how the sunroom looked before the walls were painted.
And, after the walls were painted. Deanie also painted all the wicker furniture gray, for a more trendy look. She also added grain sack pillows.
I think this room looks so cute! I love the wicker painted gray and I love the coffee table.
And looking at the other side with the now painted brick wall.
I should paint my white wicker gray like this. It really gives it an entirely updated look.
Now, let’s take a look at her daughter Dana’s house.
Dana, Deanie’s Daughter’s House
Dana recently moved to a rental house. The house came furnished but Dana didn’t like the furniture, so Deanie came to Nashville and moved the owner’s furniture into storage so Dana could use her own!
Dana also loves white slipcovers, and she likes to add touches of blue to her décor. I love this slip with the gathered ruffle edge, so cute!
Looking the other way towards the living entry hall.
The alabaster lamps and shades are really cute. The sofa table is an English antique.
Imagine that these rooms were painted a dark green when Dana moved in.
The white paint makes all the difference – it’s so bright and cheery and fresh looking now.
The dining room has a white table with black chairs. Nothing looks better than a crystal chandelier.
Many of the pieces in the house came from Deanie’s house or were bought by Deanie and Dana at antique fairs.
A close up of the entry hall with its antique buffet painted white. I have that same exact lamb!!!
Dana’s house is so cute, especially for a rental, and I’m sure they’ll be happy here for years.
Now, I also received pictures of Dana’s Mother-in-Law and her daughter’s houses. So, that makes two sets of mothers and daughters in an extended family. Of her family, Deanie says: “We are definitely partners in our madness over all things old and making our homes look the best we can. Its in the blood I guess. We all love a lot of the same things but our houses are completely different with our different tastes.” Her daughter Dana says of the bunch “We ALL love Roundtop, decorating(we NEVER stop), laughing, great food and company, cultivating 'anything' we see and just living beautifully and full!”
Dana’s mother in low, Elizabeth, recently moved back into her house in Nashville, after living in Texas. While in Texas, her house was rented and it was painted by the renters. It now all has to be repainted and just the front rooms have the new paint. Here is the living room with its gray buffet and darling blue and white slipped sofa. Deanie said that when she started decorating with white – Elizabeth didn’t understand it or like it. Now, she has many white and painted pieces herself.
The dining room is in the prettiest shade of blue gray. I love the color of the walls!!
She mixed a crystal chandelier and a dark table with a painted console.
Elizabeth’s family room is still to be painted, but you can see her large white slipped chair and ottoman.
I love her green lantern – it is one of a pair. The hide rug adds another trendy touch.
The bedroom has a white slipcovered headboard with white and pale blue bedding, along with painted white end tables.
White with light blue is my favorite color combination for a bedroom these days.
Elizabeth’s daughter Leslie (who is Dana’s sister in law!) painted her living room a light blue gray, just like her mother.
She mixes urns and columns and mirrors – as did her mother, Dana and Deanie.
The entire family all has white slipcovered sofas! And they all have crystal chandeliers. Leslie mixed in baskets and mirrored furniture.
The antique French armoire is a real focal point. When starting out, you should try to buy one large antique for each room, then build around it when decorating.
The antique will last through any decorating style or trend and is a great investment.
Elizabeth and her daughter in law Dana both moved to Nashville to start a church. Elizabeth and her husband are the pastors and Dana is head of the Children’s Ministry. Dana’s husband also preaches there. Besides her work with the ministry, Dana has four children who keep her quite busy. Needless to say, Deanie is very proud of her daughter, and who wouldn’t be!
Looking at these four families – two mothers and two daughters – and how similar their houses are, yet different at the same time, think about your own family. Does your house resemble your mother’s or your sister’s? Or do you have totally different styles than theirs? In my own family, it is similar – my mother and sister and I all love the same things, but in different ways. We all love antique furniture and accessories. They don’t love slipcovers and seagrass like I do, but we all three love French design. On my husband’s side, the daughters in law also all love decorating.
I wonder if all families are like this? Do the women all love to decorate in your family too? I would love to see more extended family houses and look at how the decorating is related from house to house. I think it would be hard to be the only one in the family who decorated. If you spent money on your décor but your in laws didn’t, would they think you were extravagant or wasteful? My mother always advised me to “put your money into your house and not into your clothes,” which I do. I would much rather buy a new accessory than an pair of shoes. It helps that most everyone in my extended families – on both sides – have the same mindset.
A huge thank you to Deanie, Dana, Elizabeth and Leslie for sharing pictures of your beautiful homes!!!!
ANNOUNCING A GIVEAWAY!!!!
Kristin Mullen who writes the blog Covetable Designs is having a giveaway to tie in with a big announcement. Kristin who designed her own gorgeous home in Dallas, above, has started a new decorating business, Design Online, for clients who don’t live in Dallas but want to hire Kristin. Be sure to visit her blog for all the details about the giveaway HERE.
And, don’t forget that Kathryn Ireland is the guest interview this week on The Skirted Roundtable, HERE. Last Saturday, we recorded a new interview with a HUGE surprise guest! That will be online after the holidays, so watch for the announcement. Thank you as always for your continued support. Pictured above is a dining room from Kathryn Ireland’s book Classic Country.
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